[TheTrishgu]

I don't know what to say anymore. I try to talk to him, the best that I can and he just gets upset and ONLY because I'm upset! I can't take this back and forth insanity anymore. He tells me he is doing nothing but supporting me. And I tell him that I need more. I guess he can't give me anymore. Is that what I'm supposed to get from this?
He just walks away and then tells me I"M the one who isn't talking to him.


I moved out so I could get some perspective on the situation and I want to be home so badly to see my baby, but he hasn't changed at all. It's like he's just been sitting at home for 2 weeks, waiting me to come back saying it's all better. But it's not just me. I'm the one working through my stupid head and going to therapy and trying to make this work.
But we keep coming back to the same conversation, ending in him walking away and me feeling like a piece of CRAP.

[gingerkat]

I know this doesn't help, but sometimes there are no words to explain how you feel. Best of luck.

[NuckingFutz]

Could you telling him that him getting upset isn't supportive. That it makes it worse? Couples counseling? Trading him in for a better model?

[TheTrishgu]

I told him last night that I'm not moving back home. There is no use in taking my meds now. He is canceling my insurance by the end of the year.

[jerrymichele]

I wouldn't stop taking your meds. He could just be saying this. What is your therapist saying to do?

[MickG]

Originally Posted by TheTrishgu

I told him last night that I'm not moving back home. There is no use in taking my meds now. He is canceling my insurance by the end of the year.

I don't know where you live but if you find the medications are helpful there are often local agencies that can assist you in staying on your medication if you cannot afford it. I'm not a fan of big pharma but docs often have access to a sample supply provided by the drug companies that they may let you have some of for free.

[TheTrishgu]

Originally Posted by MickG

I don't know where you live but if you find the medications are helpful there are often local agencies that can assist you in staying on your medication if you cannot afford it. I'm not a fan of big pharma but docs often have access to a sample supply provided by the drug companies that they may let you have some of for free.

I don't qualify for anything our state has to offer. And I asked him to cancel my insurance because he needs the money to send the baby to daycare, now that I won't be the one taking care of him. And I was only trying to get better for them. So there is no reason to stay on them.

[KDlady]

I am so sad for you