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Old Mar 28, 2011, 06:52 PM
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Im very worrie about my life, im depressed deeply, i thik i been crying for two weeks, and we gone to get married in two weeks, its not the firs time i been depressed my fist time was when one year ago we lost our house, i have a new born baby and my fiance and me live together since i was pregnant, he is not the father of my baby butt its like it, he love him like he its his own son...well after we lost the house we start to live with his grandmother in her house with his mother too, so even when at the beagining everybody get along, with the time his mother change her actitud with me, she is rude, unrespectufull, and with me its a ugly person; so one time i decide back with my parents becuse i coudnt live more time with her mom i was so depresed than i got with the doctor and he give me antidepresives pills, so i get overed and stay i just take the pills for two weeks and i feel perfect felling happy again, so we find a house close to his mom and grandma and i agree cuz i do undesrstand the family thing matter too much, so we move finaly. So then she his mom start to talk about what i do or what i dont do, make bad commments about mee, and at two weeks for the wedding my boyfriend and i are starting to give up, i dont know what to do, i love him but y dont want to cry enymore, my hart its broke and i think he dont want to married, he is tired all the time and im mad all the time, almost all the time i miss him butt when is in the house i dont want to see him, ...helpe please did we shoul cancel the wedding and make happy to his mom?

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Old Mar 28, 2011, 09:52 PM
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If you are unsure if you want to be married for whatever reason then yes, I think you should postpone it. Better to wait until you are sure than to make a mistake.
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Old Mar 28, 2011, 10:59 PM
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I agree with Yoda. There is no reason to rush into things. If you are unsure wait. Just b/c you postpone the wedding doesn't mean it will never happen. Take the time to re-evaluate your situation and what is that you want.
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