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Jun 24, 2012, 03:48 AM
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Im getting so over this crap. It's to benefit us BOTH, with respect and caring, nd he couldn't really care less.
He's said yes to counselling, and I bet if a therapist told us we needed to do thid he would. But he thinks so little of me and my intellect that anything I actually *bother* to say is rejected as stupid and pointless.
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Jun 24, 2012, 05:03 AM
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Well, thank God he's agreed to therapy! And you said that if a therapist said if "something" was needed, he'd do it, right? Well, that's something anyway, huh?
I'm sorry he treats you with such disrespect. My first husband treated me like that too. To him, I was very stupid, and had no intellect whatsoever. My self esteem was so broken -- I married him at 18 and divorced him at 44. I guess he was right about my intellect, huh? LOL After I divorced him, I never felt better! LOL I learned alot thru that. Some men never stop emotionally abusing women, even thru therapy so be SURE he changes. We went thru therapy too, but he never stopped abusing me, and that IS abuse. I wish you the very best. God bless and best of luck. Hugs, Lee |
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Jun 29, 2012, 02:58 PM
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I know that feeling.. any suggestion I have made to my wife (soon to be ex-wife) instantly got rejected, but if someone else mentioned it, then it suddenly became a good idea....
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