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May 08, 2016, 07:24 PM
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My husband has been having an affair since November. He met her at a bar in town and she is 14 years older than he is. He acts like everything is is doing to us is ok. We have a two year old son and I am 7 months pregnant with our daughter. When he gets mad he blames me for everything and says if I was a better house wife we wouldn't be here. I was a good house wife and he had everything with us. It's so hard to get over what is is doing but it's like he is trying to convince us and himself that tibia ok. He can't even see clearly because he is so infatuated with his new fling. Has anyone's husbands regretted abandoning their families for someone?? Do you think this is just the affair fog talking??
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 Anonymous37780, Crazy Hitch
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May 09, 2016, 02:34 AM
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I am sorry for the suffering and pain you are going through. At this time what is necessary is to be surrounded by friends and family to prepare for the birth of the baby. Concentrate on the baby and the children right now. What he is doing is not right. And i would definetly get some counseling to help you through this traumatic ordeal. You definetly have come to the right place. PC Forums is the place to go and be. I wish you the best dear. Just keep venting as you need to and get a network of people around you. Blessings
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May 09, 2016, 04:42 AM
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There's no excuses for an affair. Period. He shouldn't be pointing the finger blaming you - it's solely his choice and wrong doing and ill judgement.
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May 12, 2016, 07:17 AM
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Regretted? It's called denial. A lack of capacity to accept personal responsibility.
His priority needed to be on addressing how he felt in his first relationship which is with you and the family that he created. I agree that long term counseling can help you rebuild yourself, your worldview, sense of self after such a tragic blow, and bring you to a place of personal empowerment. 
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May 12, 2016, 08:03 AM
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I'm so sorry this happened to you. Pregnancy is such a vulnerable time and should be a safe, great experience. This was a cowardly, cruel thing for him to do.
I know a few people who broke up during their pregnancies with spouses. They were all OK. I hope you will just try to put yourself and your baby first now and enjoy becoming a mother.
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