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Jul 21, 2016, 01:35 PM
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Where do I even begin I'm 39 I have been married to my Husband for 10 yrs,but its not been a marriage at all anymore it is more like a ticking time bomb
It is at the point that we don't even talk anymore I've tried to communicate with him,but I'm just ignored or not taken seriously..... We don't sleep in the same bed or room heck we haven't been intimate for almost 8 yrs he just stays in his room does nothing and when we do have communication it is always him insulting me or nit picking about the most littlest things and it gets to the point that we have very heated arguments. I'm on disability I wanted to go to college to better myself and to become something better he gave me no support what so ever emotionally the only thing he had said to me is oh you won't stay in college you'll get tired of it and stop going. He doesn't work refuses to get a job he depends on his mother to support him and send him money which I really do not like at all not that I dislike his mom or anything I had told him I am married to YOU and not your MOTHER.......... I pay everything rent,bills etc he refuses to get a job and contribute to anything.. It is taking its toll on me mentally and emotionally I am drained. So I have decided that it is best that I file for divorce as I have decided that I don't want to be with someone I feel like I don't even know anymore... |
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Jul 21, 2016, 03:30 PM
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Hello kittypoppins: Since this is your first post here on PC... welcome to PsychCentral… from the Skeezyks!
 I hope you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.  I'm sorry your marriage has turned out the way it has.  But, from what you wrote, it sounds as though the time has come to put this painful experience behind you. I hope that being here on PC can, in some small way, be of comfort.  PsychCentral is a great place to get information as well as support for mental health issues. There are many knowledgeable & caring members here. The more you post, & reply to other members’ posts, the more a part of the community you will become. Plus there are social groups you can join & chat rooms where you’ll be able to connect with other PC members in real time (once your first 5 posts have been reviewed & approved.) Lots of great stuff! So please keep posting! 
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Jul 23, 2016, 08:38 AM
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Peace Kitty... I wish you all the best !!!
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