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Unhappy Jan 07, 2021 at 08:46 PM
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Where to even begin, I've known my ex wife ( weird to say ) for 7 years been married for 2 months.... she basically woke one morning and said " I don't love you anymore and I don't see a future". So couple months went by of us still living together then she cheated on me. Then I told her she needs to leave, and she left. We are not even divorced yet ( still going through court crap ). This women was my best friend and is still my best friend. People **** up and I know that and I was willing to forgive and move on. We are young ( in our 20s) but the pain is some of the worst I have personally ever experienced. We still talk once or twice a day which I find weird maybe its a comfort for us both? I tried to get this women the world as much as i could for a 27 year old still working though life and sure I could have not said some mean stuff or communicated better but its takes time to fix those things and I was working on it and she just gave up. She is also going through a lot with other things in her life I just thought we would go through them together. This hard time was a true first test of our marriage and she ran without skipping a beat. I don't know if anyone else is went or is going through something similar but man this ****** sucks.

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Default Jan 07, 2021 at 09:52 PM
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I am sorry you are struggling so much and even though you have only been married for two months your relationship was lengthy. It’s understandable your emotionally challenged right now.

You say you to talk to her every day. Has she maintained her desire for divorce?

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Default Jan 10, 2021 at 07:59 PM
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I'm sorry that you are going through this.

I know that you don't want to hear it but you are young and better to know now than later that you are not loved. Take it for me, 16 years together and now "I love you but I am not in love with you", "I've faked it for years", "it's not like I don't want to do those things, it's that I don't want to do them with you". Etc.

You have your life ahead of you. It hurts now but it won't hurt forever. It gets better and you deserve someone that loves you equally. Being the one that lives more than the other stinks.
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Default Jan 18, 2021 at 04:58 PM
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I know exactly what your going through because I’m currently going through it too. Been with my husband for 16 years the covid happens our friends announce they are getting a divorce divorce hen he announces he wants one. He’s been my best friend we have two boys and it’s heartbreaking. The kicker of it all is I suspected that he likes my friend this who time. Today he finally admitted that he may pursue her in the future. I’m dealing with heartbreak from our relationship and the hurt and not knowing my future and on top of it a betrayal to our friendship. I’m literally shaking right now.
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