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Default Aug 25, 2021 at 02:09 PM
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My wife just moved out of our home. There was no infidelity on either side.
I did some things that were just on the computer. She wanted counseling a year ago and I agreed but, she didn't schedule anything. Last couple months when I brought it up she refused to go.
What advice do any women have that have separated from their husbands have for me?
For those who reconciled with their husbands (which I want) - what did he do or not do to help the situation.

Thanks for your help!
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Default Aug 26, 2021 at 01:19 AM
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Hey @What now can you elaborate on what you mean when you say "things on the computer"?
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My wife just moved out of our home. There was no infidelity on either side.
I did some things that were just on the computer. She wanted counseling a year ago and I agreed but, she didn't schedule anything. Last couple months when I brought it up she refused to go.
What advice do any women have that have separated from their husbands have for me?
For those who reconciled with their husbands (which I want) - what did he do or not do to help the situation.

Thanks for your help!

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Default Sep 02, 2021 at 03:02 PM
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Were you looking at stuff or communicating to someone in inappropriate manner? You need to provide more details so we can suggest what you can do for her to come back. It depends what is it that you did
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Default Sep 04, 2021 at 09:46 AM
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Do you have children? Because for me, nothing, nothing, nothing is more important than how you deal with them post-separation. My ex has been the worst. Unsteady, unreliable, unstable, financially negligent, and now making us go through a totally unnecessary court process. Now I despise him. It didn't have to be that way.
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