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Default Aug 31, 2021 at 07:21 AM
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Honestly, I don't know where to begin or proceed.
I am currently married heading towards divorce. Been in the relationship a total of five years. Currently six months pregnant for the man that asked for a divorce when I was only three months pregnant because he "fell out of love" he also suffers from depression.
It's really taking a mental toll on me. We both wanted a child and had the same ideals of raising the child together as a family and now that picture is shattered.
We still live together, and even after the divorce, I have to be tied to him for the sake of the child and I really don't know how to cope. It is becoming increasingly harder to go about my daily routine I feel no support whatsoever and he now does as he pleases and it's honestly hard being in the same place as him on a daily.
I'm wondering if I should tell him to move out, but it's so hard because financially, I can't afford to pay for the house we bought together two years ago alone.
I'm just in the same place dealing with extreme fluctuations of emotions and I know he doesn't care and it hurts so much, especially since now it's like we have this child coming into the world and now it will be a custody fight too.
I'm just at an all time low. Any advice or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated!
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Default Sep 02, 2021 at 01:00 AM
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Do you have a lawyer? You need one. Once you get representation your lawyer can file to have your husband give you spousal support and decide who gets to stay in the house while things play out. A lawyer is not for just you, you will be taking care of your childs future.

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Honestly, I don't know where to begin or proceed.
I am currently married heading towards divorce. Been in the relationship a total of five years. Currently six months pregnant for the man that asked for a divorce when I was only three months pregnant because he "fell out of love" he also suffers from depression.
It's really taking a mental toll on me. We both wanted a child and had the same ideals of raising the child together as a family and now that picture is shattered.
We still live together, and even after the divorce, I have to be tied to him for the sake of the child and I really don't know how to cope. It is becoming increasingly harder to go about my daily routine I feel no support whatsoever and he now does as he pleases and it's honestly hard being in the same place as him on a daily.
I'm wondering if I should tell him to move out, but it's so hard because financially, I can't afford to pay for the house we bought together two years ago alone.
I'm just in the same place dealing with extreme fluctuations of emotions and I know he doesn't care and it hurts so much, especially since now it's like we have this child coming into the world and now it will be a custody fight too.
I'm just at an all time low. Any advice or words of wisdom would be greatly appreciated!

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