Divorce living abroad don't know what to do

Hi really need some advice my wife has just told me she does not want to be together out of the blue no reason wants a divorce thinks she is just bored no one talks about us being together anymore she is trying to kick me out of the house and leave. I am from the UK I have been living in the US for two and a half years been married for 2 years we met in the uk after dating we decided I would come to the US as I don’t have any children my wife does they are grown up I sold my house my car and my 2 small business so when I came to the US I would have money till I could work and money to fall back on till I found a job I was interested in my wife was happy and told me no rush find something you like my wife at the time had ok job but was in a lot of debt I helped why would I not we Newley married had savings and we spent some on ourselves my wife has a very good job I found myself coming to the US the covid 19 hit so getting a job was hard in the end I got a nice job I liked and was happy but working nights she asked me to get a new job as don’t see each other and I agreed it’s not working I look for something else then after this I have struggled to find a job I have few interviews lined up now my wife is bored now I think or something. she wants me to go back to the UK with nothing I have nothing now I will be homeless and have no job over there I ask could I have money to just get started up or little something like what I did for her I could understand if she had no money now she works for Pharmacal company make more money in a year then I would in three she was happy for me to help her out and spend my money what am asking can she kick me out what would I need to do my name is on the house if I could I just pack up and leave all big mistake but I cannot leave I have no family to help or nowhere to go just need to save some money but she is trying to make me feel guilty for staying any advice, please.

Hi @Kyta I dont know all the laws but once you marry do you become a us citizen or do you need to do more? Can you be deported? Assuming you are protected just as much as any other us citizen she cant make you leave. If she wants a divorce she can file or hire a lawyer who will serve you the papers. You are both owners of the joint/common property including assets like bank accounts. You still have access to money dont you ?

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Originally Posted by Kyta Hi really need some advice my wife has just told me she does not want to be together out of the blue no reason wants a divorce thinks she is just bored no one talks about us being together anymore she is trying to kick me out of the house and leave. I am from the UK I have been living in the US for two and a half years been married for 2 years we met in the uk after dating we decided I would come to the US as I don’t have any children my wife does they are grown up I sold my house my car and my 2 small business so when I came to the US I would have money till I could work and money to fall back on till I found a job I was interested in my wife was happy and told me no rush find something you like my wife at the time had ok job but was in a lot of debt I helped why would I not we Newley married had savings and we spent some on ourselves my wife has a very good job I found myself coming to the US the covid 19 hit so getting a job was hard in the end I got a nice job I liked and was happy but working nights she asked me to get a new job as don’t see each other and I agreed it’s not working I look for something else then after this I have struggled to find a job I have few interviews lined up now my wife is bored now I think or something. she wants me to go back to the UK with nothing I have nothing now I will be homeless and have no job over there I ask could I have money to just get started up or little something like what I did for her I could understand if she had no money now she works for Pharmacal company make more money in a year then I would in three she was happy for me to help her out and spend my money what am asking can she kick me out what would I need to do my name is on the house if I could I just pack up and leave all big mistake but I cannot leave I have no family to help or nowhere to go just need to save some money but she is trying to make me feel guilty for staying any advice, please.

Hi, we have joint ownership of the property {House} my name is on the house deed but we never had a joint bank account she did not want that I don't have much money at present time trying to save so I can leave was asking if she can kick me out right away is just come out of know where now she is financially secure what me to leave. thanks for getting back to me.

From what i know about the US laws, you should be allowed to keep half of assets and have alimony from her if she earns more than you do. Unless you signed some kind of prenuptial agreement or it's your immigration status issue. Most lawyers will give your a free consultation. Please do it now so you know what's going on. Good luck.