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Default Dec 24, 2021 at 01:19 AM
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I thought about it and realized his stalker-like behavior is part of his illness as a person with severe psychosis. I asked that the letter be returned to the sender. We divorced over 13 years ago. He is a creep. He stalked me at work and never allowed me to drive on my own. He watched my every move while we were married. I was a slave so I ran away one day and never returned. Now, he has kept contacting me periodically through social media- I blocked him and now he has written a letter- I don't care what he wrote in it. I was wondering if I should report him to the police? He is a sociopath. I distinctly remembered he broke into my apartment while we were separated so I had to put an alarm in my apartment. He is insane and knows he can get away with a crime by claiming insanity. I am far away from my parents' home now but it is annoying he wrote a letter to their address. I don't think the police can do anything for now. However, his behavior tells me he has not changed and maybe still psychotic. He is a flea on my butt. I am dating another man this weekend. Hopefully, this time I make a better choice than this fleabag. I have recovered from severe psychosis and feel blessed. I am compliant and am doing well. Some people never change. I think he needs to be permanently institutionalized for life for his behavior since he does not seem to know reality from his insanity.
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Default Dec 24, 2021 at 01:44 AM
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I would definitely report him. Insanity or not, that’s unsettling for you at best. At worst, he could be dangerous.
Every report you make would help generate a paper trail. The more reports, the more clearly the patterns of his behaviour will be shown, and, theoretically, a stronger case the state would have in the event of them deciding what to do with him. Although hopefully you wouldn’t need to make more reports in future.
It’s good to hear you have recovered and I hope your new date is a better person than your ex
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Thank you so much for your reply.

I will ask my family to report him to the police then.

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I'm sorry he keeps trying to get back in touch. Yeah, it's a good idea to report and have documentation of each time he contacts you. Maybe eventually you can get a restraining order.
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Well, I know I should not say bad things about psychotic people for their behavior but this person is a monster. His eyes are a telltale sign of psychosis like Charles Manson. I don't think his medications are working. He used to be on many medications while we were married but to no avail. His family protects him and does not accept that he is severely impaired. I have been there also though- having been severely psychotic. However, I am about 80 percent recovered since I am compliant. I feel blessed. His family overprotects him yet he has no friends and can't work outside with other people. His family wanted me to take care of him while I was working full-time. F**** them!! IF they want a full-time caretaker, pay for it. I had enough of this monster. He is really disabled and should not be allowed on the streets. He could be harming others near him, I believe. I know he knows right from wrong yet he does not want to acknowledge this. He is not stupid but not too smart either. He should know by now that I could care less about him. He is a flea on my butt. The funny thing was that I was so busy while working after I escaped then he asked me for a divorce so I gave it to him. Why is he bothering me now? So, he is still insane and has not moved on. I was really sick when I met him too and thought we could help each other. But, his family expected me to take care of him and work full-time while they washed their hand of him. Nobody wants him and nobody cares about him. Well, he is not my problem anymore. I gave him what he wanted- a divorce. So, please get the heck out of my life as well. I don't feel sorry for him and for his family. They deserve what they got for trying to hurt me.
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