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Default Feb 23, 2022 at 10:20 AM
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My spouse completely blindsided me and now I'll be getting a divorce. We lived happily for years and he was completely normal up until the moment he destroyed the marriage. I don't want to be bitter or go down a path I don't want to. On one hand I'm scared at how easily I'm going through this, but at the same time I'm hurting so bad. I know nothing heals but time but I don't know what to do with myself now. I'm trying to find support groups but I don't have any money with my now changed future. If anyone has any advice or anything please reach out, I don't have any friends and I don't know how to make any.
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Default Feb 24, 2022 at 03:54 PM
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I am so sorry you are in the difficult situation you describe. Can't even imagine what you must be going through. There are a lot of people on these Forums going through separations and divorces. I hope they will see your post and respond to it in a kindly and helpful way. Although I am single, I have found these Forums to be very helpful when I feel very isolated and alone. Hopefully you will find this site to be a place where you will meet many understanding and compassionate people, people who will encourage you and offer you consolation. Wish I knew what to say to help!
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Default Feb 26, 2022 at 06:44 AM
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My spouse completely blindsided me and now I'll be getting a divorce. We lived happily for years and he was completely normal up until the moment he destroyed the marriage. I don't want to be bitter or go down a path I don't want to. On one hand I'm scared at how easily I'm going through this, but at the same time I'm hurting so bad. I know nothing heals but time but I don't know what to do with myself now. I'm trying to find support groups but I don't have any money with my now changed future. If anyone has any advice or anything please reach out, I don't have any friends and I don't know how to make any.
I dont know where in VA you live but here are some resources for support groups and most have online options. The healthline link is especially good.
Marital Separation Support | New Beginnings-Washington D.C. Metro Area
Virginia Directory of Divorce Support Groups - Divorce HQ
Divorce Recovery | Richmond’s First Baptist Church

8 Best Online Divorce Support Groups[/B][/SIZE][/FONT]

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