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Old Sep 21, 2023, 10:59 AM
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5 days in of being split up. this year has been rough and it's lead to this. she doesn't love me anymore. i'm still madly in love with her.

i don't know how i can keep going, just taking it minute by minute.
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Old Sep 21, 2023, 02:25 PM
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@MtnTime2896 I am so sorry for your loss. It must be like so painful to have the person you love not want to be together. Please keep us updated on how you are doing.

Who is in your support system right now like familiy, friends, therapist or MSF?

Feel free to PM me or reply to this message @CANDC
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Old Sep 22, 2023, 03:17 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear this. Breakups are never easy. In my experience, healing is a matter of time. Bit by bit you start to feel better. I also tried to find things to do so I wasn't constantly dwelling on it.
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@CANDC I got a new therapist this past month. Right before the ball dropped. I'll be living with my ma and lil sis.
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Old Sep 29, 2023, 12:08 AM
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Updating here.

I have spent the past focusing on what her and the relationship needed. Never myself. This is a hard lesson for someone with self-hatred. I'm simply trying to survive at this point.

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Anyway, I'm done sobbing away.
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@CANDC I got a new therapist this past month. Right before the ball dropped. I'll be living with my ma and lil sis.
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That is a good idea I think to be with other people. I take comfort in just not being alone when I am grieving. @CANDC
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