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Location: Kentucky
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Mar 02, 2024 at 03:05 PM
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It's been four years and I still think everyday about my ex. Not in the sense of needing, missing, or really wanting them-- but they come to mind. Their birthday was last month, so that lead to thinking about them a lot more than normal for me, but it's at least a passing thought everyday.
I'm really not sure how normal that is to still have such a connection to someone who isn't in my life in any way. It's better this way, but I can't help but have reminders... even four years later, everyday. __________________ 
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Member Since Mar 2024
Location: Earth
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Mar 02, 2024 at 05:10 PM
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I've been split for three years. Absolutely best choice. I still think of them from time to time. I'm no expert, but it seems to be okay. As long as it's not causing you any problems.
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Member Since Jul 2022
Location: West
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Mar 11, 2024 at 08:52 AM
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It happens to me too. It's been almost 10 years and it does not feel like that long ago.
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Mar 11, 2024 at 09:14 AM
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It’s been over 30 years for me. I still think of him from time to time. Even now that he has passed on.
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