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Jun 27, 2009, 02:55 PM
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I don't want to be a faliure!!
I am thinking about going back into the hos. For just inpatient for 7 to 10 days. And then hopefully continuing on back at home here. But I won't go unless I have my husbands true support this time. And that means him understanding. That also means as much as I hope that I would like to keep it between a chosen few, because of my failure issues. And my feelings that I have when everyone gets so upset. So I'd rather say that I went to see my friend. I don't know if he will do this for me but I need him to. How do I ask this how do I inform him? How do I know that I'm too far gone to do this at home? How do I know I'm that bad? Maybe I should ask him. |
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Jun 29, 2009, 10:09 AM
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Sorry it took me so long to reply... I've been away this weekend. You are NOT NOT NOT a failure. Going inpatient means you're caring enough to get help for yourself. That's a good thing. Even if it's scary. What about printing off something like this post to give to your husband?? I hope he understands and supports you, since I know you want to get better and to take care of yourself.  
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Jul 02, 2009, 09:51 AM
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You are not a failure at all. You are a great person with a lot ahead of you.
I believe if you can go in you are showing a lot of strength. You are a strong person! Hugs, keep us informed. Doll |
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Jul 06, 2009, 09:27 PM
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Jul 07, 2009, 01:33 PM
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Jul 07, 2009, 04:15 PM
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i am proud of you!
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Jul 07, 2009, 06:20 PM
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Jul 11, 2009, 04:58 PM
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I am glad you chose to go into the hospital.....I hope that it will do some good.....I know I was inpatient for 1 month back in 1995.....Thanksgiving through Christmas & New Years that year. My pdoc was the one that forced me into the treatment center at that time......I couldn't relate to what they were saying.....I had too many other issues going on at the time........The whole next year, I was in & out of the medical hospital having to have IV nutrition through a central line every few months....that was a really bad time for me as I didn't care whether I lived....
I made it through that & ended up several years later gaining more than I had lost.....only to end up back down again a few years ago after going through a horrible trauma with my Mother who was dying of cancer......my weight loss is related to stress & how sick stress makes me feel so I can't eat without feeling sick, so then I don't eat.....They realized that it was PTSD related anorexia this last time & it was impossible to find any treatment after being in the medical hospital a few years ago with the central line & IV nutrition. I hope that your hospital treatment will help you avoid any of the medial issues that come with the anorexia........I also hope that this inpatient center has the family group treatment that the one treatment center I went to had.......since you need your husband to be supportive.....that would be a good place for him to get a chance to be involved. Thinking of you, Debbie
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