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Nov 27, 2010, 12:20 PM
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Am not eating , got to the point were i dont care anymore.
Ate very little yesterday. My partner says it's up to me what i do , he cant force me to eat. I feel like am doing what is necessary. If i eat, i fail , i dont want to be a failure . There is so much pressure from my family to be perfect, something am not. I want perfection and maybe not eating is going to get me that. I do have professional help but with my mental health not my ED. I have told them about me not eating and restricting but they said because am overweight that there isn't a problem. **** them. I dont need help from anyone any way. Am fine doing what am doing. |
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#2
Nov 27, 2010, 02:56 PM
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Hi Angel21,
I CARE! And I will CARE enough until you can see this for yourself. I wish you would eat something, even if it was small. Could this be a goal that you do everyday....you could be perfect at it! If you eat, you will NOT be a failure. You are helping yourself to get better! Your partner is right it is up to you, but I hope that he supports you in any way that he can as you go through this. And yes, **** them (doctors)! Doctors are not always correct! Seeking other help from another doctor would be good for you. I am here to help in anyway that I can! Cherrios! |
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#3
Nov 27, 2010, 02:58 PM
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Thank you for caring .
I feel bad because i ate , it was low in calories . |
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Nov 27, 2010, 03:03 PM
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I am here! Please don't feel bad that you ate....YOU ARE AWESOME for taking the steps to help yourself and for choosing to eat something (Low calorie is ALWAYS good!)
Cherrios! |
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Nov 27, 2010, 07:08 PM
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Dear Angel, Your eating disorder is an emotional ie: mental health problem. Maybe you need to find better professionals to help you. You also sound like you are indulging in a little bit of self-pity. This is normal but it is not very productive. |
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Nov 28, 2010, 02:17 PM
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Am eating bare minimum at the moment .
Some of the time i want to purge . |
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#7
Nov 28, 2010, 02:23 PM
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((((((((( Angel21 )))))))))))
 If you want to lose weight, starving yourself is not the way to go as the body goes into starvation mode. The body stores the fat more and saves it when you starve yourself the way you are doing. The way to lose weight properly is to have small regular meals and exercise. I feel you are doing this to yourself as a way to punish yourself for not being perfect for your parents. Please talk to your T about what is going on.
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#8
Nov 29, 2010, 03:35 PM
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I am still eating bare minimum.
I cant face food over set calories. I don't have a T and but i do have my CPN who i can talk to about it with. Am going to talk to my dr as well |
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#9
Nov 29, 2010, 04:08 PM
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I am glad that you eating...eating more would be better, but small steps! I am sorry that you do not have a T, but I am glad you do have someone to talk to about this. And I am really happy that you are going to talk to your dr. as well. Really good steps you are making!
Cherrios! |
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#10
Nov 29, 2010, 09:17 PM
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i know how you feel,i have been trying to eat again ,and it is more painful than not eating,i feel horrible,and i use to love food ,now i am with you i dont care anymore ,and that is wrong and i know it,we have to eat ,but i just wish i could without feeling like this,without taking laxatives after everything i eat.i am sorry you feel this way ,i am sorry i feel this way.
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Nov 30, 2010, 11:34 AM
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I told my sister about my eating.
She wants me to eat , but i cant. I just cant. |
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#12
Nov 30, 2010, 11:38 AM
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(((((((( Angel )))))))))
Can you contact your CPN as soon as possible and let her know what is going on.
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#13
Nov 30, 2010, 02:42 PM
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I see him on the 8th but i can contact him if i need to talk to him
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