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It is going to be a binge/purge fest this weekend. My husband is going away. My T is starting to push me out of the nest to learn how to fly on my own without him and I do not want to. My inner child is demanding attention and I refuse to let her contact T for the help so I am planning on my trip to the grocery store and what I can do to keep this under some kind of control.
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I knew driving home. I tried to talk myself out of it but the urge was to strong. I wanted to contact T to have me talk me out if it but I felt childish and needy.
I gave in to it....oh how euphoric it felt... Like an idiot I felt horrible about myself so what do I do.......I email T. Nothing he can do obviously....but it is now the opening dialogue for Monday and I do not want to GO! I am so embarrassed.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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