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Oct 31, 2014, 05:35 PM
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How is everyone holding up with all the candy around? I did good. Only ate one piece.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Oct 31, 2014, 09:57 PM
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Too many panic attacks all day. I had to bake a cake for a family friend and I just had to pretend it wasn't food.
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Nov 01, 2014, 12:49 AM
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I bought a couple bags of mellowcreme pumpkins at work and I'm eating them veeery slowly. My friend J and I took about two days between us to get through the first one, second not even open yet. Luckily I'm a shut-in so no obnoxious levels of candy around if I don't go get it myself, but I have to cook something for Samhain tonight and that's going to be a challenge.
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| Grey Matter, MoxieDoxie
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Nov 01, 2014, 06:05 AM
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I am so glad I ran out of candy and I am not left with left overs. It would have sucked the emotional energy right out of me.
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When a child’s emotional needs are not met and a child is repeatedly hurt and abused, this deeply and profoundly affects the child’s development. Wanting those unmet childhood needs in adulthood. Looking for safety, protection, being cherished and loved can often be normal unmet needs in childhood, and the survivor searches for these in other adults. This can be where survivors search for mother and father figures. Transference issues in counseling can occur and this is normal for childhood abuse survivors. |
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Nov 01, 2014, 04:34 PM
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I live on a farm out in the middle of nowhere so kids don't come around but we do what is called "Trunk or Treat" at our church.
This is the first year where I bought all the candy at the beginning of the month & it just sat there until last night but it was sooooo cold, I didn't get to the church until the end...so the whole bowl of pretzels & candy are going to be taken to our Bible study group tomorrow night. I ate quite a few pieces earlier today. I got the good things that I like but really would rather eat the good healthy other kinds of food....like the stuffed bell peppers I made with soy meat & my own stuffed peppers out of my garden. It was so cold that the rain turned to snow by this morning & I woke up to a snow covered roof & truck....I need food that makes me warm like soup in this weather don't even have a desire for the candy.....one reason why I bought the little bags of pretzels was because it's healthier also.
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