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#1
Dec 06, 2008, 08:35 PM
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whats wrong with me?!?! I just weight myself again, I gainned half the weight I lost! im so depressed. I just threw up and felt a bit better but still, I gainned 4 pounds! how can that be?!?? Okay, now its on. I will lose those 4 pounds and more. I believe I can, with the help of exercise and dietary pills. I wish i never put on those pounds
 But i dont understand, yesterday i was happy since i lost 6pounds, then today i find im almost back to where i started off! 
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Dec 06, 2008, 08:42 PM
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please, help me, i dont know what happend?!!!
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#3
Dec 07, 2008, 11:19 AM
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CB, you are tying your weight to your happiness. There is no way to win this game. Please stop playing it and focus on ways that will really bring you happiness.....
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Dec 07, 2008, 12:21 PM
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but once i see i weight less and less, im happy. it's the one thing i want for myself. To be able to like myself, once again.
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Stop Animal Cruelty! R.I.P Oscar (dec-16-08) You still mean the world to me Into Paradise, may the Angels lead you.
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Dec 07, 2008, 12:36 PM
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Figure out why you really don't like yourself. Liking yourself according to your scale is dangerous and empty.......
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Dec 07, 2008, 12:41 PM
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besides the scale, I feel lumpy, fat, and overweight.
but i always think of the positive  like how i can change how I think of myself, Truely.
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Stop Animal Cruelty! R.I.P Oscar (dec-16-08) You still mean the world to me Into Paradise, may the Angels lead you.
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Dec 07, 2008, 12:45 PM
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Why do you think that you don't like yourself. Are you adopting these feelings because you feel that your mom is neglecting you - you must not be important because otherwise your mom would pay more attention to you?
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Dec 07, 2008, 12:59 PM
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CB, my mom ignored me. I grew up thinking that I had little value because of this. My mom did it because she had mental problems. She didn't do it because I wasn't important. I don't know your mom and why she does it but it isn't because you are unimportant. You are very important!
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Dec 07, 2008, 12:59 PM
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well, i dont really think so. I just kinda gave up wanting her to pay attention to me more. Me and my cousin were talking and all, we got this crazzy idea that i move in with her, she has some sisters and her parents are always home. I really want to go live with her but i dont kno how.
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Stop Animal Cruelty! R.I.P Oscar (dec-16-08) You still mean the world to me Into Paradise, may the Angels lead you.
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Dec 07, 2008, 01:08 PM
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Are these your mom's or dad's relatives? Do they live close by? (we posted at the same time. Did you see my last post?) Don't underestimate how are parents treatment of us affects how we feel about ourselves. Understanding why we are the way we are is really helpful.
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Dec 07, 2008, 01:10 PM
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yeha i read yours, well, my mom doesnt have a medical condition but i dont know.
Its on my mother's side. They live 2 hours away. They're my closest relatives. me and my cousin are really close, but do you think i could go into foster care? but i'm not sure though. Like how i could do it and all.
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Stop Animal Cruelty! R.I.P Oscar (dec-16-08) You still mean the world to me Into Paradise, may the Angels lead you.
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Dec 07, 2008, 01:12 PM
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Foster care could be worse........ How about starting with telling your mom what you need.......
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Dec 07, 2008, 01:14 PM
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hello, was just wandering around on here, and yes its true i think that how parents/relatives are with you has an impact on you...i have a 28stone aunty, and i can remember being told by various people i looked like her, and when i have babies, i will definately explode into my auntys size, and now here i am, with an eating disorder, because im so petrified i will be obese.
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Dec 07, 2008, 01:15 PM
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right, okay, thank-you
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Stop Animal Cruelty! R.I.P Oscar (dec-16-08) You still mean the world to me Into Paradise, may the Angels lead you.
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Dec 27, 2008, 12:13 AM
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When you first lose weight, you'll feel happy. But then, you'll be looking for another way to constantly improve your appearance. You're try harder and harder to lose more and more weight. Losing 5 pounds won't be enough...next it will be 10, then 15...it's not worth it. We all love you and don't want to see you hurt. I know, because I've been dealing with it myself. When I go down a jean size, I'm happy at first. But then I want to be even skinnier. It's a vicious, never-ending cycle. Please don't put yourself through it. You don't deserve it, you deserve much, much better. |
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Jan 25, 2009, 11:33 PM
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thanks. yeah since i moved a while ago ive been kinda butting the diet kinda on and off alot. but our scale is all packed away so i have no idea what the hell i weight. but i think it'll be helpful, to like be all happy when i realize i lost like 10 pounds or something but yeah. i skate alot and i exercise, i eat a yogurt in the morning and have a nurtrrition bar thingie in the afternoon which takes me forever to eat and stuff. but i try to sleep in cause i read in a megazine once that if you sleep in you lose a bit of weight, so i try that. ive chewen alot of gum and drank lots of water. im staying away from lots of carbs and some sodium and sugar and fat and calories, basically everything! but hopefully it will work!!
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