[sinking]

Do you think one can really be unhelpable?

I feel like this sooo much...

[avlady]

i feel that way every day of my life. that is why i'm heavily medicated. then i think of people out there who have it worse and feel guilty for feeling sorry for myself. i guess that keeps me in check.

[sinking]

how do you get help?

WHAT can help?

[Pepi]

What's troubling you so much so that you seem you're in great distress?

I have just realized that there are times I don't want help.

[sinking]

I feel i'll never get the help i need to feel well because its impossible for me to feel well. therefore im unhelpable

[lookinforhelp]

Do you have a good therapist? I have recently started w a new therapist and he is not as accepting of my not having a purpose or goal to work towards. I do have a lot a times that I don't want help and that I just want to give up. He isn't accepting that. He is my main support, and contact as I have totally isolated.

Sinking everyone is helpable if they are willing to receive help. It is those who totally reject it that are the ones who gave up and refuse the help, which is a very small fraction of people. tc

Originally Posted by sinking

Do you think one can really be unhelpable?

I feel like this sooo much...

Certainly you can feel hopeless. I feel that way often.

[sinking]

i think i gave up. im sill looking for help from Ts but i dont believe they can really help.

Originally Posted by sinking

i think i gave up. im sill looking for help from Ts but i dont believe they can really help.

May be they can help, try it, and don't give up.

[sinking]

im trying again today, having a session with T...