[Joloto69]

Im attending counselling sessions (2 so far) following husband infidelity. Yesterday i ended up being not only confused but very angered by the counsellor rattling off a list of the traits of a psychopath and announcing my husband is one. I ended up arguing back - he lacks self confidence, is not glib and full of himself, does not put himself on a pedastel and expect me or others to 'worship at his feet', he did not start nurse training as he wants to be adored. No matter what our issues i did disagree and stand up for him. Should a counsellor do this?

[possum220]

In a word.... no. You need to feel heard, understood and have some kind of rapport with the therapist. If you can even be bothered going back to this one I would tell them how you felt.

Otherwise see another Therapist who is a a better listener and communicator. Good Luck.

[MickeyCheeky]

Yeah, you need to feel confidend with your therapist.. please, tell him/her about this when you can.

[Joloto69]

Thanks both. Im going to look elsewhere. Clearly im angry with my husband but her reaction was quite shocking

[kecanoe]

I am glad you are going elsewhere. Psychopath is a serious diagnosis and I would not be ok with a counselor diagnosing anyone based on my description.