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Default May 03, 2024 at 12:12 PM
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Okay, this morning I was making blueberry chocolate pancakes for chica, her SO, and me. I felt like her SO was riding my *** and telling me I suck at making pancakes. Now, I consider myself a pancake making pro after having a period where I made various types/flavors of pancakes every day for like a month.

Him: Those look like they're done
Me: No, they're not. Trust me.
Him: I don't want to eat biscuits
Me: They won't be biscuits. I'm cooking them so they don't have raw batter on the inside. I know how to make pancakes haha.
Him: I'm going to have to use a lot of butter.
Me: You don't have to eat them if you don't want to eat biscuits
Him: I never said they were biscuits. I haven't even tried them.
Me: You just insinuated I'm making biscuits.
Him: I did not! Stop putting words in my mouth! I'll eat them.
Me: You said they were done, and I said they weren't, and you said you didn't want to eat biscuits, implying that these pancakes are biscuits. I think your problem is you make pancakes by turning the heat all the way up, burning that side, flipping them, burning the other side, but the inside is still fking raw-*** batter so you just assume I do the same, but look at the heat, it's not at the highest heat because that way you CAN cook it all the way through without burning the outside. If you don't want the pancakes, I'll eat yours.
(I have tried his pancakes and this is exactly what he did)
Him: I haven't even tried them yet, how am I supposed to know what they taste like?
(As I finish making them)Me: do you want the pancakes or not?
Him: of course

I will say, he did quite enjoy the pancakes.

I also want to point out this guy encouraged chica to drink a whiles back, and I saw them physically fighting in the middle of the street. I want every bit of ammo, no matter how insignificant, I can use against this guy to get chica to stop associating with him because apparently that's not enough. She might think the fighting wasn't something to be concerned about; I've been in those shoes.

This is ridiculous. I know. But this dude INFURIATES me and I never want to see his *** again.

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Default May 03, 2024 at 12:26 PM
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How did you not stuff the pancake turner up his whatever?! That was admirable restraint.

That conversation - his batching - would have done me in. You held your own! You must make some good pancakes if you shut his mouth up!
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Default May 03, 2024 at 12:30 PM
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I am trying my hardest to not meet any more police officers, and I think I'm doing a fantastic job. Just kept in mind "I'm gonna shut his mouth with the best pancakes this dude has ever eaten." When I am good, I'm very good.

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Default May 10, 2024 at 12:00 AM
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I have tried making pancakes a few times and found it very difficult. I admire your skill level.

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Default May 10, 2024 at 07:24 PM
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I have tried making pancakes a few times and found it very difficult. I admire your skill level.
Are you thinking of crepes? I canít ever make them right. Either too thick or too thin. I never mastered them

Pancakes are kind of thick, hard to ruin.
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Default May 10, 2024 at 09:36 PM
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True, I was think g of crepes. I have never tried my hand at thick pancakes.

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Default May 12, 2024 at 05:48 AM
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When I make pancakes, I wait for the first side cooking to become full of bubbles, then I flip them and let the other side brown. Theyíre done.

I sense something bubbling up with this guy, too. Just let him get all full of hot air, then flip him, and heís done ;-)

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Default May 14, 2024 at 02:57 AM
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He's the d-bag, not you. He was gaslighting you. by first saying he doesn't want to eat biscuits, and then denying that he said that or implied it. It's gaslighting, which is an emotional/psychological abuse tactic.

And sorry... I am not aware, is chica your daughter? I am trying to piece together who chica is and who this guy is in relationship to you and chica.

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Default May 14, 2024 at 11:23 AM
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Iím pretty much Chicaís squatter lol. The dudeís her boyfriend, and the more I see of him, the more I notice this sort of gaslighting/emotional manipulation. Im trying to get her to break up with him.

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Default May 14, 2024 at 11:26 AM
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I see, thanks for explaining! She is likely getting same or worse treatment. Ugh.

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Definitely worse. First time I met the dude was outside the building swinging at her, but they were both smoking crack or something.

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Oh my goodness. Thatís insane. Why are you squatting at a womanís home who does crack?

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Default May 14, 2024 at 05:22 PM
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Desperate times call for desperate measures. Best option really. She doesnít REALLY do crack. I know nobody casually does crack, but after that experience even she learned her lesson. I just hope it sticks long term.

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Default May 16, 2024 at 01:39 PM
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i also find pancakes so hard to make because of the inside not being done enough! my husband makes them soo great and all the syrup is absorbed evenly. that is how i like them. good luck
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