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Old Jun 06, 2009, 12:31 PM
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I'm so happy! i just found out so I'm only 4 weeks in (so a chance of miscarriage bu I'm not going to worry about that now).

My hubs and I tried briefly last year but it was right before our wedding and nothing happened. then we decided to wait for a bi and last month it just seemed right.

HOWEVER, I talked about it to my T last week and he said now probably isn't the best time to be having a child. And I totally agreed because i don't want my kid messed up like me, but, well, too little too late, I guess. We are so happy and I do have 9 months to get my **** together, but still.

Anyway, just thought I'd share!

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Old Jun 06, 2009, 12:36 PM
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I'm so happy! i just found out so I'm only 4 weeks in (so a chance of miscarriage bu I'm not going to worry about that now).

My hubs and I tried briefly last year but it was right before our wedding and nothing happened. then we decided to wait for a bi and last month it just seemed right.

HOWEVER, I talked about it to my T last week and he said now probably isn't the best time to be having a child. And I totally agreed because i don't want my kid messed up like me, but, well, too little too late, I guess. We are so happy and I do have 9 months to get my **** together, but still.

Anyway, just thought I'd share!
Congratulations on your familys pregnancy. I hope the best for you in the future. Soidhonia
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Old Jun 06, 2009, 01:14 PM
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I'm so happy! i just found out so I'm only 4 weeks in (so a chance of miscarriage bu I'm not going to worry about that now).

My hubs and I tried briefly last year but it was right before our wedding and nothing happened. then we decided to wait for a bi and last month it just seemed right.

HOWEVER, I talked about it to my T last week and he said now probably isn't the best time to be having a child. And I totally agreed because i don't want my kid messed up like me, but, well, too little too late, I guess. We are so happy and I do have 9 months to get my **** together, but still.

Anyway, just thought I'd share!
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Old Jun 06, 2009, 02:02 PM
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Old Jun 06, 2009, 02:25 PM
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That's absolutely wonderful!!

I wish you the very best.
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Old Jun 06, 2009, 03:13 PM
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How wonderful. Congratulations!!!!
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Old Jun 06, 2009, 03:26 PM
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Old Jun 06, 2009, 05:12 PM
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Old Jun 06, 2009, 05:23 PM
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That is wonderful!!! COngratulations!!
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Old Jun 06, 2009, 06:04 PM
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Congratulations to you and your family!! Even though it might not be the absolute best time for a child, I really don't think there ever is one. The good thing is you are working with T, and T can be there for you to help you learn your skills and get healthier and help you through the pregnancy too.

Having a baby is such a joyous event!!

Take care.
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Old Jun 06, 2009, 09:44 PM
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That's great! Maybe your pregnancy will rub off on me!

I'm pregnant!!!!!!!
I'm pregnant!!!!!!!
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Old Jun 07, 2009, 11:16 AM
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Thanks everyone! I do think that there's never a "right" time for a baby, and I'm so glad I have my t right now. I think it'll help a lot too with post-partum depression if I have any, and if I'm still seeing him.
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Old Jun 07, 2009, 12:53 PM
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Old Jun 08, 2009, 02:29 PM
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Old Jun 09, 2009, 10:58 PM
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Congratulations!

Can you believe there is a little tiny life inside?

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Old Jun 09, 2009, 11:05 PM
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Old Jun 11, 2009, 04:43 AM
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Congrats on the pregnancy! Hope all goes well for you!

Love and Hugs,
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