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Dec 10, 2009, 08:10 AM
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Just returned from my occupational health assessment for my new job that l was due to start on Monday................that wont be happening now............. and guess want they want more information from my pdoc and pnurse
 I'm so fed up with everything even when you are fighting to move away from the stigma that mental health diagnoses gives they just wont let you. I have heard all the rubbish about its for my benefit etc but l see in their eyes something more( or maybe thats my paranioa ) I know that l was off sick for 5 months last year but have been working in a very stressful job in mental haelth since returning to work last January so why does that not count............it makes me mad and sad at the same time. They cant, wont , dont look further than these stupid diagnoses why cant they go on now not then?????????? I dont want this stupid diagnoses no more dont they think w have suffered enough and now we just need to move forward..........why oh why is there always someone holding me in that stupid place of abuse and memories................l hate it all............... I just want to live again so why cant they just let me?????????? I have just told pdoc l WANT to see the report BEFORE he sends it anywhere as l dont want him to put in there what l was like then but what l am like NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!! it has to count for something..........right????? sorry just needed to get it out.....................arrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggggghh !!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
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Dec 10, 2009, 08:39 AM
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oh no!!!! this is just outrages! hunny I'm trying to get a hold of you...
please hang in there... stay safe! (((( Mandy & all )))) /N |
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Dec 10, 2009, 09:04 AM
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Sas I'm sure your gp will listen to you if you tell him calmly that you need to send a good report in order to get on with your life and do as well as you are so obviously doing now. Good luck honey, I'm sure you will be fine, look how far you have come. Some people just don't get it, they make me furious, but I'm sure your gp will listen to you, take care, Kerry xxx
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Dec 10, 2009, 09:23 AM
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They have the report from the GP she is on my side and thinks its a great move forward. As for the p doc well im sure that he would just have us all drugged and lying in bed all day if he could. I am so sick of all of it and l know they are only doing their job and trying to safeguard me but surely when l am well, not psychotic etc surely they should listen to me too!!!!! or does it mean that because l have a mental health history that l should just lie down and give up and not even attempt to get a responsible job and improve my life and mental health????
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Dec 11, 2009, 08:03 PM
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sas,
Only just read this. Words are inadequate, that so stinks though. I'm really sorry. They are quite frankly.... wrong. Keep fighting for the good life you deserve. 
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Dec 11, 2009, 08:43 PM
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