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Elder
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May 19, 2010 at 06:26 PM
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Just wondering if anyone shares with their friends and family members that you are a member of PC.
Myself , I won't even add it to favorites . Scared someone will find out what I'm really like. 
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May 19, 2010 at 06:33 PM
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Yes i keep it a secret. The only ones who know are my girls. The initial reason I came here was for a huge relationship problem and no one IRL knows about this, nor do I want them reading everything. In a way it's kind of like a journal - private.... for me anyways.
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May 19, 2010 at 06:47 PM
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My T knows, she recommended PC but I don't tell people about this, not even friends. This is my safe place where I can be myself.
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May 19, 2010 at 07:10 PM
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I tell people about it. Heck I even wear the T-shirt. But I'm totally open about talking about my MH experiences, I figure the only way to reduce stigma is to talk about it.
Heck I even have it listed on my resume that I'm a systems adminstrator for another mental health support site, under volunteer activities. --splitimage __________________  "I danced in the morning when the world was begun. I danced in the moon and the stars and the sun". From my favourite hymn. "If you see the wonder in a fairy tale, you can take the future even if you fail." Abba 
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May 19, 2010 at 07:14 PM
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Total secret. If my family figured it out, I would not be on here.
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May 19, 2010 at 07:19 PM
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Secret here to babysteps. My friends and my husband know the extent of my mental illness, but sometimes my problems are with them which is one reason I keep it a secret. Another is I feel safe to express things here. I feel like psychcentral is all mine. My secret place I go to talk about my problems to people who understand them. Really understand them. Not just listening to me and me feeling like a whinner.
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May 19, 2010 at 07:19 PM
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I have actually mentioned it to friends. My Name on my XBox account says "Bipolar" in it so that isnt a secret. My wife knows about PC and at one point contemplated joining. I tried time and time again to get her on here so that she can better understand what I go through, but I think ultimately she decided not to. She was afraid that it would violate me in what I say. Also afraid that people would back and forth between us. (We met in Chat on the internet so that is where that stemmed from).
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May 19, 2010 at 07:21 PM
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My parents know because I access it through their computers. I told my T about it but I don't know if she comes here or not I'd rather not know. I haven't told me extended family but then again we just don't talk about my MH.
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May 19, 2010 at 08:03 PM
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Yes.
I talk openly and rather proudly about PC. I have suggested to other's who have expressed their struggles & issues to check out the site and witness for themselves the help that overflows here, (don't know if they have visited, or joined). The way I see it, there's not a damn thing wrong with obtaining help for self. And PC is a great place to gets. It's a nice thought, though, to imagine that someone had found a sense of relief here because of my mentioning the site....  Shangrala 
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May 19, 2010 at 08:13 PM
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Its a secret. I have no one in my life besides my husband and son, well - and my sister but that's a long story. Anyway, no one knows about it. My husband knows I spend time on a forum, but he assumes its political as that is what I have frequented in the past.
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May 19, 2010 at 09:01 PM
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People in my life know I am a member of a MI forum but they do not know which one or my user name. I am on the PC/Facebook interface.
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May 19, 2010 at 09:17 PM
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It is secret except my son does know.
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May 19, 2010 at 09:21 PM
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I don't openly talk about it much, but I don't really keep it a secret. I do tell my hubby about it, and the members of my support group. I have mentioned it in passing to my T.
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May 19, 2010 at 09:31 PM
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It is mostly a secret that I visit PC. My family doesn't know but then they don't know that I may have some issues.. Other than maybe they think I am just nuts. Maybe I am. I have mentioned a few online friends to maybe take a look here. Don't think I ever told them the name I use here.. I really don't want anyone that knows me to read anything that I might write here. SO with all that said, I pretty much keep PC a secret... Not that I care they should think/know I have issues. I just don't want them reading what little I do write here.....
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May 19, 2010 at 09:33 PM
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May 19, 2010 at 09:35 PM
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May 19, 2010 at 09:38 PM
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I keep it private, a little different from a secret.
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May 19, 2010 at 10:01 PM
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I do not talk to many people. Those I do talk to know. Heck, when you have been unhinged for as long as I have I doubt anyone can say anything I have not already heard. Besides, there is nothing wrong with trying to help yourself. If someone wants to have a little fun at my expense, I hope they enjoy it cause their life cannot be a whole lot better than mine.
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May 20, 2010 at 02:05 AM
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It's my safe place so yes I absolutely do keep it secret
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May 20, 2010 at 02:21 AM
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Like Echoes, I keep it private rather than a secret. My husband and son openly know about it. I chat to my husband about some experiences here and my son even helps me in games sometimes. But I don't talk about it freely to anyone else. And, this is selfish of me, but I would never recommend the site to anyone I know in real life as I don't want my identity discovered. This is my safe place and I love my anonymity here.
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