[El-ahrairah]

chat, please, someone go , anyone

(((((((The Bakery)))))))
I'm not able to go on chats from the hospital I'm staying at, but if you ever want to send me a pm, please feel free to do so. Hang in there!

[El-ahrairah]

thank you ;o; i pmed you

[JayS]

(((((((The Bakery)))))))

I don't know how to use chat but we can talk here if you want? just hang in there.

[El-ahrairah]

Originally Posted by JayS

(((((((The Bakery)))))))

I don't know how to use chat but we can talk here if you want? just hang in there.

thank you. Im having trouble telling reality from fiction, bf says i am making him miserable i say im doing my best to be a good gf, he said im wrong as hell.... I don't know what to believe I know he is just as nuts as I am... I love him so much but I am making him sad? I dont know how I ask and he gets mad. I am submissive, helpfull, considerate as best as i can be, I do anything I hate sex and I still do it, I dropedd ALLLLL my friends cause im bi and he knows and I know will get mad... I duno what to do anymore ;c

I just want to make him happy..

[JayS]

It sounds to me like you need to make yourself happy before getting him happy, he needs to be more understanding of your needs.... Your not doing anything wrong, he's in the wrong.

[El-ahrairah]

I see.. im scare he will leave me if I tell him ... im so not confident in myself..

[JayS]

If he leaves you then he never really cared right? Remember you need to be happy no matter what, if he makes you sad then he's not worth it.

[El-ahrairah]

Originally Posted by JayS

If he leaves you then he never really cared right? Remember you need to be happy no matter what, if he makes you sad then he's not worth it.

i guess thats true... but isnt that normal in relationships? for one to make the other sad at some time?? ;cc.... i dont understand what he wants... i give him all a man would want.. why i am failing?

[JayS]

Again, you have to do whats best for you.... do you have more sad times then happy? if so, why put yourself through that. Try talking to him, ask him what he wants, he shouldn't get mad and if he does tell him to think about how he's acting.

[El-ahrairah]

Originally Posted by JayS

Again, you have to do whats best for you.... do you have more sad times then happy? if so, why put yourself through that. Try talking to him, ask him what he wants, he shouldn't get mad and if he does tell him to think about how he's acting.

okay ill try that ;____;

i think wi will see him today...

[JayS]

Good luck, hope everything works out for you both.

[El-ahrairah]

thank you soo much

[Evening]

It's not your job to make him happy, what should be making him happy is that you are with him. If you are having to work to please him, especially if that brings you down in the process because he's still not pleased, then that's not a fair deal. Your efforts to make him happy are making you unhappy. A relationship takes work from both sides.