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Aug 24, 2011, 07:25 PM
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AJ asked me who is right. IS he right or is his g/f right? I don't know what is going on so AJ tells me.. They breakup and get back together every week.. ANYWAY last Friday they were I think not together...
Seems his g/f hooked up with one of AJ's friends last Friday and they spent time together. She said the "friend" made her feel uncomfortable and he would not get out of her car. The "friend said that did not happen.. But then she texts him on Saturday..and send the same text to AJ.. which is weird.. But looks like someone is not telling the truth... Then there was this issue with another friend of AJ's where she said this other friend was trying to hit on her...and he even went in AJ's bedroom with only his tight underware on. lol... guess he wanted her to seem him?> lol... I dunno....... Somebody is not telling the truth.. AJ's friends or his g/f.. This has been going on for weeks.. So I tell AJ just get them all together in one room and ask them all face to face..... But then "stupid" me... said one girl had a crush on AJ but AJ was not interested in her other than a friend and aj's g/f somehow told AJ, "last night" that she thinks he is sleeping with this other girl.. I only told her that because this was to reasure her that AJ wasn't interested in other girls and that he is faithful........guess i was wrong, dang and folks have said well not everyone just folks that get mad at me, say i'm crazy... Dang I look sane next to these guys.. Her x boyfriend followed her to our house. He bought her a cell phone and she accepted it....... What is wrong with this picture............... |
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Aug 24, 2011, 08:08 PM
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The relationship seems very unstable and as a mother I would keep my opinions to myself. You will end up being the bad guy in the end no matter whose side you take.
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Aug 24, 2011, 08:36 PM
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Good point...I've pretty much kept my opinions to myself. Thinks AJ needs to either get new friends or a new g/f.. Maybe both............I thought the drama was over, guess I was wrong.....
I've learned from the past, to not get involved. I pretty much stay to myself.. And tell them both they have to work things out. But seems "trust" is a major issue with her and AJ too....This is the first maybe second time AJ asked me who was right..I can't remember what I said, it must have not been a good thing because I pretty much backed down this time and said I didn't know...Suggested he talk to his dad about it........ Relationships boggle my mind, esp when there is always drama.....Hope there are good movies on tv tonight... and hope AJ isn't up all night "fighting" cuz he has court tomorrow for a wreckless driving ticket... THey both need therapy.. When ya don't know, go to therapy.. right? |
| lynn P.
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Aug 24, 2011, 08:58 PM
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I know its hard not to get involved but I hope AJ will comes to his senses. I think you're right, he needs new friends and a new GF . A good woman doesn't flirt with her partners friends and friends most certainly don't flirt with the GF. The problem is, if the GF show any openness, his friends will try to move in. A good woman would say to the guy who came in his underwear..."get the hell out, what do your think you're doing". She sounds immature and doesn't seem to recognize proper etiquette, like not accepting gifts from exes.
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Aug 25, 2011, 04:44 AM
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If the only source of information aliens had came from this site, they would surely conclude no relationship ever works.
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Aug 25, 2011, 01:40 PM
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It does take a lot of work to make any kind of a relationship work.
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Aug 25, 2011, 09:45 PM
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Lynn... I am not sure if she is encouraging these friends of AJ. She is very friendly and sometimes guys take it the w rong way.. I know when I was younger, I too was very friendly and guys thought I was flirting with them, when in fact I wasn't. But then I don't know why she has these guys as friends on her facebook and on her cell phone, let alone in her car? I dunno...Everyone's story is different.. lol.....Don't know who to believe............ AJ said this morning, he will figure it out....
She is a 32 year old woman, with a university degree, with making mega dollars. SHe is very beautiful, good personality, friendly and outgoing..Yet, I am not sure exactly what she is doing. She is a Gemini.. Maybe gemini's aren't to be figured out. lol.. Blame it on being a Gemini... OK so I know that is stupid... Just glad I didn't and don't get involved in their spats. I just check on them when things get too loud... Guess we will just have to wait and see what happens.. |
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Aug 26, 2011, 12:48 AM
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Dang.. maybe Byz is right? When Melissa Gilbert/half pint files for divorce, maybe in most cases, marriage isn't a great idea. Even her sister, Sara Gilbert split from her g/f.... seems, at times, everyone is divorcing.... sad comment, yet wondering why folks even bother getting married
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