[radio_flyer]

They are at it again. This time AJ was wrong. He was helping an x-g/f from 4 years ago install windows on her computer over the phone and when his current g/f called he didn't pick up on her call as he was helping this other girl so his current g/f was very upset, which she should have been.

Isn't so much that his g/f was angry. SHe has the right to be angry and AJ said he was sorry.. But she kept going on and on and on and on and well AJ blew and I heard them screaming at each other. It is hysterical screaming ..

I don't know if I was in the wrong by going upstairs to defuse the anger. But then on one hand it doesn't matter if I was right or wrong. SHe gets way to hyserical and it isn't good for her and the baby.. She could lose that baby they way she gets so upset and AJ has no right to scream at her either..

SHe got upset that I went upstairs and said they had to work out their issues. AND I Said if she and AJ were fighting that loud at her mama's house, wouldn't her mom or dad step in.. SHe said yes, her parent's would have stepped in.. AND I said you guys can't go so overboard here either.... THere is a limit..

IS OK if they argue but they go over the limits and it goes on for hours...AND she is very emotional... I get worried she will get sick and lose the baby... SO AJ has to learn to listen to his g/f express her feelings of anger over something he's done that upset her.. He said he was sorry... and it won't happen again.. How long does a woman hold her anger when she is upset.

GUess I should know this but I don't.. I've been denied anger so I just withdrawl... SO I don't really know. What I do know. I won't tolerate AJ screaming at her.. ANd I won't tolerate her hysterics... THey have to learn a better way to fight...