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Old Aug 04, 2012, 12:42 PM
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Big pity party here, I feel alone and I am alone. I have family but I am still alone. Unfortunately I have 3 sisters who could care less about me. It is hard walking thru life w/o anyone who cares or takes interest in your life.<<<sigh>>>.

The only thing left that really cares is God and sometimes I doubt that.
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Old Aug 04, 2012, 01:04 PM
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((((Tator))))

I have been more and more alone for years. Sometimes when you are around people it's actually worse because they constantly disappoint you. My family may care but they have a funny way of showing it. I have no friends and it is hard to make friends because I need too much, I feel it is too much to ask of a stranger.

I guess if we want people to care we have to let them in.. maybe that's just me.

I care Tator
and I know there are loads of people on PC who care about you
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Old Aug 04, 2012, 01:05 PM
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i dont know where to find it, because people change and people who say they care dont always care, and i come to realization that i will never find anyone that care about me as much as i wanted to be.
stop seeking, you will only ended up exhausted, the only person who care about you its supposed to be you...dont put your hope to high on people its only lead to dissapointment and hurt
i found my self talk to my self a lot lately, i pretend i talk to someone else well i still feel sad but somehow it works for me

i know how its feel to feel that you are all alone believe me i know how thats feel too well and its the saddest feeling, but its your life you need to do everything that you have to do to keep on going so start to make yourself your own best friend


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Old Aug 04, 2012, 02:17 PM
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I am an opposite....I have people who love me but I fear I cannot love back. I feel empty. I want to feel love and emotion again. My heart is locked up tight and the wrong people are suffering for the badness of a few. Those who have stayed by my side see me suffer and I feel unable to give back to them what they give to me.
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Old Aug 04, 2012, 06:38 PM
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I agree that the best way is to reach out to others, but I know that is hard for some folks here at this point in their lives.

I am blessed to have some people in my life who at least act like they care about me! Truly, I actually think they do.....

And, yes, there are many caring people here at PC. A number of folks came here for help, got better, and now mainly stay because they want to help
others.

I honestly think I have a T who actually cares about me. I know--I am paying her--but I see signs that she went into the profession to try to help people and she cares about her patients. (Actually, I think it's a rare T who doesn't. Gee, who would go into it for the puny pay they get?)

It might be tough, but I suggest that you look at the social groups here and see if there are any you might be interested in. The foundation of friendships is usually shared interests.
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Old Aug 04, 2012, 07:20 PM
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My siblings just dnt umderstand about me being bipolar
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Old Aug 04, 2012, 07:56 PM
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I wish I knew the answer to that. The only thing around here that cares about me is my cat and he just wants some food. The loneliness is getting to me tonight.
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Old Aug 05, 2012, 06:51 AM
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Where I find it difficult to voice my feelings to my family, I find hugs do a lot when words fail.
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