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This boy at my school is on the football team.
His name is Dusty and he's really big. Dusty is 6ft 4in and he works out to gain muscles. The bad thing is: I've been reading off his Facebook profile and now I know so much about him. He's just so cute and hot. I even told him that in my school emailing system, and of course he did not reply. He has been ignoring me this whole time. I've only met him once in person, then he stopped talking to me permanatly. And another thing, he is Mormon. I felt sinful for being obsessive with him the whole time. I can't help it! I try to avoid him by running away, but it only scares me. I even look around me to see if he's there. When I do, I begin running away. I even talk to my friends and write in my diary about him. They're getting annoyed about it. How can I get rid of the crush? |
#2
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Find a "real" boy, someone in a class you are in, sitting next to you, etc. and just talk to him as a friend. Talk to other people and don't talk about him. Pick one of your school subjects to get very interested in.
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Do NOT go on his page anymore, and as was said, focus your mind on boys who are more like you and might become interested in you. If need be, distract yourself with ANYTHING--reading, TV, movies, girlfriends, etc. Some people who get obsessed even do things like put a rubber band around their wrist and flick it so it stings when they start thinking about an inappropriate topic. You can get over this obsession and move on to someone more appropriate!
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Crushes are normal. Used to do that all the time and they are a PAIN. Otherwise the above advise is good. Generally speaking, though there are always exceptions, athletes aren't that great a catch. They spend too much time developing one part of their lives. Chalk it up to experience, dear, know that we all have been there at one point or another, and go cold turkey. It will get better HUGGGSSSSS
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#5
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Hey ...welcome back
![]() ![]() It's just a crush. Nothing to worry about. ![]() |
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