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Old Nov 20, 2012, 03:41 AM
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as a companion type pet
i've never had a dog

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Old Nov 20, 2012, 01:35 PM
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What kind of dog are you thinking of getting? Keep in mind if you have a fenced yard, or live in an apartment. Research different dog breeds, you may want to find a breed that doesn't bark a lot, or isn't too energetic.

I've had several dogs over the years. Two Shelties, they are great dogs, the first one never barked but the second one did. They are very loving, affectionate, and love attention.

I also had a bassett hound, now he barked and bayed. I thought with his short fur he wouldn't shed too bad, but I was sure wrong on that one!! Dam short little legs could sure run fast though!!! He also liked to cuddle.

Shedding is another thing to consided, you can get breeds that are non shedding or shed very little.
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 06:00 PM
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If you realize what tough job it is to have a dog, and that it costs money, then yea, a dog is great!

I suggest that instead of getting your own dog, volunteer to take care of someone else's dog as they go on a short vacation or something. Then things will be much more hands on and you will have all the instructions from the owner to fall back on if you're insecure.

If after that you feel that a dog is right for you, maybe then it is.
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 07:39 PM
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A dog can be a good companion but also a lot of trouble. Like humans they can have a lot of health concerns which can be not only expensive to treat but also heart wrenching for owners. When considering the cost of having a pet be sure to remember the cost of food, vet checkups, vaccinations (these are so very important), boarding if you travel and grooming (if you are unable to do so yourself)

If you have gone over those things, I like the suggestion of borrowing a dog for a short time to see if it is something you like. I love my dogs dearly but they are messy creatures who knock things over and dig through the trash which causes me a lot of extra housework.

I wish you the best of luck in making this decision, becoming a dog owner can be very rewarding and well worth all the trouble but you should definitely know what you are getting yourself into before making the plunge.
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Old Nov 20, 2012, 07:52 PM
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The humane center here wants people to foster pets in their homes until a permanent home is found. Perhaps there is similar where you live? Or volunteer at a shelter to get a feel for what breed of dog you would find most compatible.
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Old Nov 21, 2012, 01:28 AM
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Yes! dogs are very helpful, especially when all you need is a hug.
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Old Nov 21, 2012, 04:17 AM
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in my view a dog is cool no matter what- really comforting pet.

yes they do take work looking after, but you'd be surprised how loyal they are- and you don't even have to have a big dog, you can get 1 of those small ones that don't grow really big
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Old Nov 21, 2012, 05:07 AM
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Just a warning. If you get a lab be ready for 1 yr of complete craziness. I have a chocolate lab. One day i came home and he had chewed a hole in the wall, all the way to the other room.
Awww, how cute!!! I love my boy, Chevie!!!
I would never get a dog that can not be trusted with children, doesn't fetch. That won't dive into the water or whose comes from a violent breed. That whose main purpose is to attack. And has been passed down for uncountable generations, almost from when the breed was established. One example being a Rottweiler. No matter if they come from good parents or not. They still have part of the natural mentality stored deep in their hippocampus. You know the story of how a great pitbull will just flip.
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Old Nov 21, 2012, 05:39 AM
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I have dogs and they are just lovely, they are there when you need a hug, and another things, mine are for cattle and pigging, but they do require lots of attention and you need to remember them,
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Old Nov 21, 2012, 05:53 AM
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the best way to see if a companion dog is right for you is to become a foster mum for a dog shelter , you get to 'try out ' a few breeds and who knows the right dog may come into your life that way.
I did that with house bunnies, i wasn't sure i could cope with little furries hopping around my wheels, or what if..., but by fostering some i have realised that i could cope but only with small breeds, as larger rabbits are stronger than me and too heavy for me to pick up.
Fostering gives you peace of mind that if you don't bond then the animal can be returned. it also helps you to realise how much it will cost to feed, vet, entertain a pet without actually costing you anything during the fostering time. well i say nothing, if you are anything like me i treated them as i would my own pets and spoilt them rotten with toys, treats etc!
Whatever yoou chose, a dog is a long term commitment, it will need walking come hail rain or sunshine, so be prepared to be in the local park whatever the weather. dogs will chew your things and house if they are bored or teething. on the other hand they will give their life to protect you, give you a reason to get up, go out etc and will fill your heart with love.
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Old Nov 21, 2012, 06:22 AM
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I would recommend that you start with a plant, and learn to take care of it. If it's still alive in three months, consider getting a dog. Gather as much information as you can, and look into the programs Yellowted recommended. Experience with different breeds, and dogs with different personalities will help you consider your own needs and wants in the type of dog you eventually settle on.

Best of luck. Just remember: lucky bamboo. All it needs is water.
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