got this in e.mail from 80 year old Indian friend.......she dyes that hair crow black and loves it!!! she is such a dear........pat

I'm Grown......ha!

Girls leave their schedule wide-open and wait for a guy to call and
>make plans.
>Grown women make their own plans and nicely tell the guy to get in where he
>fits in.
>
>Girls want to control the man in their life.
>Grown women know that if he's truly hers, he doesnʼt need controlling.
>
>Girls check you for not calling them.
>Grown women are too busy to realize you hadn't.
>
>Girls are afraid to be alone.
>Grown women revel in it...using it as a time for personal growth.
>
>Girls ignore the good guys.
>Grown women ignore the bad guys.
>
>Girls worry about not being pretty and/or good enough for their man.
>Grown women know that they are pretty and/or good enough for any man.
>
>Girls try to monopolize all their man's time (ie, don't want him hanging
>with his friends).
>Grown women realize that a lil' bit of space makes the 'together time' even
>more special... and goes to kick it with her own friends!
>
>Girls think a guy crying is weak.
>Grown women offer their shoulder and a tissue.
>
>Girls want to be spoiled and 'tell' their man so.
>Grown women 'show' him and make him comfortable enough to reciprocate w/o
>fear of losing his 'manhood'.
>
>Girls get hurt by one man and make all men pay for it.
>Grown women know that that was just one man.
>
>Girls fall in love, chase aimlessly after the object of their affection,
>ignoring all 'signs'.
>Grown women know that sometimes the one you love, donʼt always love you
>back...and move on, without bitterness.
>
>Girls will read this and get an attitude.
>Grown women will read this and pass it on to other grown women
>
>
>It is better to be hated for WHAT YOU ARE...

[Raynaadi]

I LOVE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Zen888]

Awesome fayerody

[Wants2Fly]

Good posting. Good to be reminded that the positive parts of growing older include acceptance (of oneself and others), perspective, and wisdom.

How very true indeed! Good post!

Anita always has good ones. She was the head woman dancer in Austin this year at a Powwow!!1