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Old Jul 17, 2015, 05:02 PM
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Anyone else have this problem?
I guess it's just my interpretation-
I was talking to someone that I had only met briefly a few times before and she was being super nice and I felt a good friendly vibe from her and then when I parted ways I felt awkward- like I felt like hugging her for some reason and so then if I had tried to do that I'm pretty sure that would've been weird and so then I just quickly said bye and left.

But in general that stuff happens to me- where things are fine and I'm getting along with people fine but I don't know how to end the conversation, whether in person or on the phone.
Of course this usually happens in new situations/environments, meeting new people, etc. I consider myself no longer an anxious person, and then **** like this happens lol.
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Old Jul 18, 2015, 12:43 PM
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Me, too.
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Old Jul 18, 2015, 01:51 PM
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I have that problem a lot. I can never quite tell how to end things, even with long time friends.

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Old Jul 20, 2015, 08:21 PM
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[quote=gayleggg;4566082]I have that problem a lot. I can never quite tell how to end things, even with long time friends.

Well, that's actually comforting to know.
I remember a while back I mentioned that to a friend- basically saying I feel awkward saying goodbye and said sorry if I sounded weird when I got off the phone with her.
She said she hadn't noticed and I felt stupid for saying anything. That's when I realized that it was all in my head, ah the power of anxiety!
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