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Old Mar 08, 2016, 02:35 AM
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We all struggle to change a thing or more in our lives. What is the most important change that you would like to achieve in your life?

For me I would like to get rid of my social anxiety or whatever that stands between me and making social relationships and connections.
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Old Mar 08, 2016, 02:52 AM
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I'd like to change the fact that I will most likely spend my remaining days alone.
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Old Mar 08, 2016, 02:58 AM
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I would like to understand what the professionals tell me I do not.
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Old Mar 08, 2016, 03:18 AM
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To stay on a stable path and be content, as well as to learn how to be kind to myself.
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Old Mar 08, 2016, 09:39 AM
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I would like to work and be self sufficient again. I'd like to be able to eat properly and once more have some freedom to have activities in my life again. I need to be able to once more be a contributor.
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Old Mar 08, 2016, 05:38 PM
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I would like to understand what the professionals tell me I do not.
What do you mean? Your sentence was vague to me.
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Old Mar 08, 2016, 05:48 PM
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I would like to work and be self sufficient again. I'd like to be able to eat properly and once more have some freedom to have activities in my life again. I need to be able to once more be a contributor.
I hear you. Me, too.
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Old Mar 09, 2016, 01:12 AM
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To not be so isolated.
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Old Mar 10, 2016, 02:16 PM
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I am happy with the life god has given me. No regrets for anything and I would live the same life over if I had a choice.
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Old Mar 10, 2016, 02:57 PM
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To be healthy enough and manage my lupus so that I could do more around the house and perhaps do some volunteering.
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Old Mar 10, 2016, 05:02 PM
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I want to leave behind a part of my creativity so I guess just once in my life
I would love to not feel stuck when it comes to creativity.
I have written a children's book but I don't have a clue how to go about trying
to have it published so I just do nothing.
I have designed a line of outdoor apparel but I dont know how to take the next
step so I just do nothing.
I have been working on the story of my life but I go long periods of time without
writing because I feel like I will do nothing with it anyway.
I wish I knew how to take the next step on any one of them.
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Old Mar 10, 2016, 11:55 PM
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Stop getting attached to people so easily.
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Old Mar 12, 2016, 08:51 AM
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To be more physically active outdoors
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Old Mar 12, 2016, 09:00 AM
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I'd like my physical health to get better, then most of my mental health would be better as well
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Old Mar 12, 2016, 03:28 PM
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I'd like to be healthier in terms of what foods I eat and daily activity. I am working on that now
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Old Mar 15, 2016, 08:44 AM
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I would like to work and be self sufficient again. I'd like to be able to eat properly and once more have some freedom to have activities in my life again. I need to be able to once more be a contributor.
What a coincidence. In the week since I wrote that I applied for a job. Still waiting the results of the interview. It is part time, so I still won't be self-sufficient (disability assistance will claw most of the earnings back); but, it will give me an opportunity to feel like I am contributing again. Crossing fingers.
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Old Mar 15, 2016, 09:12 AM
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We all struggle to change a thing or more in our lives. What is the most important change that you would like to achieve in your life?

For me I would like to get rid of my social anxiety or whatever that stands between me and making social relationships and connections.
Me too. I want people to feel comfortable. How can they feel comfortable with me when I feel uncomfortable within myself??

Being in the moment and not overthinking.
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Old Mar 22, 2016, 12:56 PM
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What a coincidence. In the week since I wrote that I applied for a job. Still waiting the results of the interview. It is part time, so I still won't be self-sufficient (disability assistance will claw most of the earnings back); but, it will give me an opportunity to feel like I am contributing again. Crossing fingers.
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Old Mar 22, 2016, 12:59 PM
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I would like to exist..... I have so many masks i have no idea who or where the real me is ...or if they even exist.... forgiving myself , learning what its like to live and be in the moment instead of in my mind ....

I do ok - I ride the roller coaster of life - sometimes i would like to get off and just stop and stare at the stars ...maybe with someone to hold me and tell me everything will be ok.....
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Old Mar 23, 2016, 07:33 AM
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I would like to incorporate music into my career. ha
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Old Mar 23, 2016, 08:46 AM
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To find a balance between 'want' and 'should'.
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Old Mar 23, 2016, 12:33 PM
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I would like to incorporate music into my career. ha

music teacher? home music teacher? join a choir and become fantastically famous and send me your autograph
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