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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 04:35 PM
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I honestly can't believe this. It just doesn't feel real. I talked to her days ago....and now.... I will never forget the funny times we had and down times as well but we always made it through. I know she fought hard in the end. She will be dearly missed and never forgotten. Love you tams.

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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 04:49 PM
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omg I'm in shock!

I don't know what to say.

I'll have to post later I spoke to her just the other day
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Heart Sep 21, 2020 at 05:16 PM
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So sad! Thank you for everything, Tams!
You are much loved by many. Sweet dreams!
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 06:00 PM
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I'm sorry to hear this. I did not know Tamster, but I'd seen her around and noticed she had great hair in her user picture. It sounds like she was loved by many here, and will be missed by just as many. I'm so sorry to hear that she has passed away and sending hugs and thoughts to all who are grieving the loss of her.
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 06:03 PM
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Awwww Tamster. We are going to miss you very much. No more pain.
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 06:04 PM
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I 'm sorry that Tamster passed. I 'll miss her too. May Tamster's friends and family be comforted with good memories and the support that is needed.
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 08:00 PM
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I have created an appreciation thread under Kudos

https://psychcentralforums.com/kudos...ml#post6938547
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 08:58 PM
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I don't know what to say. I'm at such a loss for words. Tams you were such a wonderful, amazing, person who was so fun to talk to. Who always knew just the right thing to say when I needed it. I'm going to miss you my dear friend.

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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 09:27 PM
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I'm sad to hear this news. Our community is diminished as a result.
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 11:18 PM
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Woven galaxy, youre right, her hair was gorgeous. Im not active on chat, but i could tell from her posts on feedback etc that her participation and fairness to posters was very important to her.
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Default Sep 22, 2020 at 04:59 AM
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Oh no this is so sad
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Heart Sep 22, 2020 at 05:02 AM
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I had been a member of PC for some time and left pfor a couple of years.

When I came back, Tams was the very pfirst person to pfriend me again.

She was like a collector of lost souls, making them pfeel loved and wanted.

Pfor that alone, I will always cherish the time I knew her.

Thank you, Tams ... You will be deeply missed.

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Default Sep 22, 2020 at 06:20 AM
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Rest in peace Tamster. We will miss you.
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Default Sep 22, 2020 at 06:37 AM
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This is a shock. She will be missed. She reached out to me, and gave me support at a time when I was very vulnerable.

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Default Sep 22, 2020 at 07:06 AM
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I am absolutely gutted.

Tamster was a rock here, someone I know so many other members interacted with, looked to for advice and help, and depended on on a daily basis. She was a fixture in chat, and I considered her my right-hand person there, because I knew she could always be counted on. She was an amazing, giving person, with a heart bigger than anybody's I've ever seen.

Like you, I have no words for the loss I'm feeling today upon hearing the news. I am so, so sad.

Rest in peace, Tamster.


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Default Sep 22, 2020 at 09:38 AM
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I cant recalled when i got to know Tamster bt it seemed to be very long years...I know many times i made her annoyed. From T mostly there be no more greetings and a Special Mod like T. ((((((((Tams family Pete & Rewin )))))))))

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Default Sep 22, 2020 at 09:56 AM
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Tamster and I were just in chat on Thursday night for an hour and she did not complain of anything. This is quite a shock to hear of her passing.

She has been a dedicated leader in the chat rooms and spent countless hours making sure that the chat rooms were a safe and supportive place. She will be sorely missed.

I am still in shock to hear the news. It is so hard to see someone I have known for so long, suddenly not be there. Rest in peace Tamster.

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Default Sep 22, 2020 at 10:26 AM
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I cant recalled when i got to know Tamster bt it seemed to be very long years...I know many times i made her annoyed ...

Yes hoshime, you were one of those chatters, who knew how to push buttons - but by her standard, she knew how to keep the flow in chat going.

Perhaps this event - the death of Miss Tamster / Doctor Tamster - allows some of us to turn over a new leaf, perhaps close a (book) chapter, and start fresh, in her memory.

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As to the numerous messages: I am in contact with the family, and once I know things, I will share them. Rest assured, I won't take this laying down either ...

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Default Sep 22, 2020 at 12:23 PM
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At the suggestion of a member and friend, there is a new chatroom called Tamster's Place to honor her and the time she spent helping others in chat.

Feel free to use it and to suggest other ways we can honor and respect her memory here.

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Default Sep 22, 2020 at 02:42 PM
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Let me tell you about Tamster...

At one point, after an incident, I put up a notice on my status that I was social distancing.

Tamster pmed me not in the line of duty to make sure I was ok. she was worried that I was upset and wanted to know if I wanted to talk. She understood how angry I was. I assured her I was fine.

I assured her that my social distancing had nothing to do with anything or anyone here at psych central. I just feel right now with all the negativity in the world the internet in general is reflecting that negativity that everyone around the world is experiencing...

that right now my focus is on self care, bringing myself back to surrounding myself with things and people who are positive, not triggering myself needlessly in this very hard time that we are living in thanks to covid 19, and BLM/ all lives matter.

Tamster understood that need to take a break from my world wide postings everywhere and bring in positivity and harmony / self care.

We spent some time talking about my life, family, job and so forth. and yes we kind of joked about my orchestrating the incident just to make a point ... it was a spur of the moment creative thing, but with a very strong recommendation and agreement to not do that strategy again lol

my point I was surprised to get a "well check" from a moderator clearly stating this was personal not job related, asking if I was ok after seeing I, a very active poster here started social distancing world wide.

thank you Tamster for your off duty well check and the conversation that ensued. you will be missed.

to me it shows tamsters heart and concern for others had no limits.

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