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Heart Sep 21, 2020 at 02:18 PM
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Good evening (Central Europe)!

It is my sad duty, as her only link to this community here, to inform you that our well known User Tamster has passed away this afternooon in the hospital.

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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 02:32 PM
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I didn’t know Tamster too well, only joined last month but I’m saddened to hear it anyway.
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 02:38 PM
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Tamster was a great friend, and she will be dearly missed.
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 02:43 PM
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She was very dear to me ... I will never forget her
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 02:45 PM
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another person gone but not forgotten

always saddens me when it happens to online friends. I don't know why, but I think it never will... like they are somehow emortal

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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 03:03 PM
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This is very sad news. She was a friend in chat these past four years or so. Tamster will be missed.
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 03:18 PM
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She meant so much to me....I am deeply saddened

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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 03:19 PM
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Tamster was very close to me and this was very much unexpected. I hope that all those who knew her can comfort each other in this hard time of grieving and loss
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 03:21 PM
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Tams was an amazing friend and community leader. I am devastated and will miss her.
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 03:28 PM
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I'll miss her.

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User Tamster passed away

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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 03:30 PM
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I'll miss her, I'm saddened to read this

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Rest in Peace Tamster... We are all more poorer because of your passing... I will remember you for being filled with kindness and love. Who took the time to know everyone. Who was fair and filled with wisdom. I am a better person having gotten to know you.

Your will be missed...
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Default Sep 21, 2020 at 03:43 PM
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Omg it seems like not too long ago I talked to her in chat I am sorry to learn she passed away. Was she I’ll?
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Deeply saddened to hear this news I know Tams meant so much to everyone here and her positive impacts on all of our lives will never be forgotten <3
Hugs to all and I’m here if anyone needs to talk at any time
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https://psychcentralforums.com/member.php?u=188080

quick link to her profile if anyone wanted to leave a message to her.
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I have only know tamster 3 weeks, but she made me feel welcome and I shall miss her
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User Tamster passed away
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I just can't even express my sadness. Tamster was a good friend of mine on PC and off. She was the first friend I made when I joined, and we were friends on and off the platform. When I drove back and forth across the country, she would keep me company and talk to me to help me stay awake. When I was strapped for time and driving to a new client appointment, she called me on the phone and read data to me to help me prepare while I sat in traffic. When I was triggered, she'd talk to me and help me calm down.

She was an incredibly supportive and kind person. The best chat facilitator and moderator I've ever met, and really she was so many people's first new friend on PC.

She lived quite a ways away from me, so I never got to meet her in person, although I had hoped one day we would cross paths physically. Even when I got busy, she'd check in on me from time to time to make sure I was upright.

This is a very sad day, but I will always remember the kindness and friendship Tamster gave to me and will try to hold true to her memory by doing the same.

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Rest In Peace my friend. I’m sorry I didn’t reply to your last message. I will miss you.

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