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Old Sep 21, 2020, 02:18 PM
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Good evening (Central Europe)!

It is my sad duty, as her only link to this community here, to inform you that our well known User Tamster has passed away this afternooon in the hospital.

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Old Sep 21, 2020, 02:32 PM
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I didn’t know Tamster too well, only joined last month but I’m saddened to hear it anyway.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 02:38 PM
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Tamster was a great friend, and she will be dearly missed.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 02:43 PM
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She was very dear to me ... I will never forget her
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 02:45 PM
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another person gone but not forgotten

always saddens me when it happens to online friends. I don't know why, but I think it never will... like they are somehow emortal

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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:03 PM
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This is very sad news. She was a friend in chat these past four years or so. Tamster will be missed.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:18 PM
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She meant so much to me....I am deeply saddened
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:19 PM
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Tamster was very close to me and this was very much unexpected. I hope that all those who knew her can comfort each other in this hard time of grieving and loss
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:21 PM
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Tams was an amazing friend and community leader. I am devastated and will miss her.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:28 PM
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I'll miss her.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:30 PM
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User Tamster passed away

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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:30 PM
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I'll miss her, I'm saddened to read this
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:42 PM
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Rest in Peace Tamster... We are all more poorer because of your passing... I will remember you for being filled with kindness and love. Who took the time to know everyone. Who was fair and filled with wisdom. I am a better person having gotten to know you.

Your will be missed...
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:43 PM
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Omg it seems like not too long ago I talked to her in chat I am sorry to learn she passed away. Was she I’ll?
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:50 PM
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Deeply saddened to hear this news I know Tams meant so much to everyone here and her positive impacts on all of our lives will never be forgotten <3
Hugs to all and I’m here if anyone needs to talk at any time
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:55 PM
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https://psychcentralforums.com/member.php?u=188080

quick link to her profile if anyone wanted to leave a message to her.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 03:58 PM
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I have only know tamster 3 weeks, but she made me feel welcome and I shall miss her
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 04:15 PM
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User Tamster passed away
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 04:29 PM
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I just can't even express my sadness. Tamster was a good friend of mine on PC and off. She was the first friend I made when I joined, and we were friends on and off the platform. When I drove back and forth across the country, she would keep me company and talk to me to help me stay awake. When I was strapped for time and driving to a new client appointment, she called me on the phone and read data to me to help me prepare while I sat in traffic. When I was triggered, she'd talk to me and help me calm down.

She was an incredibly supportive and kind person. The best chat facilitator and moderator I've ever met, and really she was so many people's first new friend on PC.

She lived quite a ways away from me, so I never got to meet her in person, although I had hoped one day we would cross paths physically. Even when I got busy, she'd check in on me from time to time to make sure I was upright.

This is a very sad day, but I will always remember the kindness and friendship Tamster gave to me and will try to hold true to her memory by doing the same.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 04:31 PM
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Rest In Peace my friend. I’m sorry I didn’t reply to your last message. I will miss you.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 04:35 PM
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I honestly can't believe this. It just doesn't feel real. I talked to her days ago....and now.... I will never forget the funny times we had and down times as well but we always made it through. I know she fought hard in the end. She will be dearly missed and never forgotten. Love you tams.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 04:49 PM
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omg I'm in shock!

I don't know what to say.

I'll have to post later I spoke to her just the other day
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 05:16 PM
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So sad! Thank you for everything, Tams!
You are much loved by many. Sweet dreams!
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 06:00 PM
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I'm sorry to hear this. I did not know Tamster, but I'd seen her around and noticed she had great hair in her user picture. It sounds like she was loved by many here, and will be missed by just as many. I'm so sorry to hear that she has passed away and sending hugs and thoughts to all who are grieving the loss of her.
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Old Sep 21, 2020, 06:03 PM
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Awwww Tamster. We are going to miss you very much. No more pain.
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