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May 10, 2009, 03:41 PM
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My daughter hasn't had any contact with me in over 6 years now. I still don't know why specifically - in her mind. I have a good idea why, knowing the people she was surrounded by after her father kidnapped her from me when she was 9 years old.
She was my life and my heart. I wonder if she even thinks of me at all on Mother's Day?
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 I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you." Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure. Can't stop you from praying and blessing me, and if that makes you feel better feel free.  But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me. And let's all respect each other's feelings. With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings." 
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May 10, 2009, 11:28 PM
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In my opinion, I think she does. Her father probably puts crap in her head about you. I can relate to you because my kids live with their dad. Men like to punish women when the relationship just does not work. You should try to be in her life. She might be mad, but if she got to know you she would see the truth. If you cant just call her, then hire a lawyer. Do what you feel in your heart. I hope this helps
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May 10, 2009, 11:51 PM
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Of course she does.
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May 11, 2009, 03:46 AM
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I hope someday you get a chance to tell her that you are thinking of her on Mothers Day 
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May 11, 2009, 10:49 AM
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Pom: I am certain she does, and with love. Hugs.
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May 11, 2009, 06:26 PM
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How can she not think of the woman who gave birth to her on MD?
I am sure that people put lots of crap in her head about you. Hence the kidnapping. I hope you at least try to let her know when she is ready you are waiting. ~grentle hugs~
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May 14, 2009, 10:48 PM
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Pomegranate I am sure that she does, one day she will come back to you! |
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May 15, 2009, 12:22 PM
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iam prety sure she does
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May 15, 2009, 12:46 PM
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 Thank you all for the kind, thoughtful comments. I limit my attempts of trying to contact her because she accused me of "stalking" her!!! Just because I would ask other family members about her and at first I did try emailing and calling often. So I stopped that when I got that response from her. I wish her a Happy Birthday every year. And every year that goes by without any attempt by her to contact me just makes me feel that much more hopeless about the situation. 
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you." Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure. Can't stop you from praying and blessing me, and if that makes you feel better feel free. But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me. And let's all respect each other's feelings. With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."
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May 16, 2009, 02:33 PM
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((((pom))))
One day ~ sometime ~ perhaps when you lease expect it, your day will come. I believe this. Just keep that love in your heart. Peace and Love, Night xoxoxoxo |
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May 24, 2009, 09:59 AM
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I have 2 children who stopped having any contact with me ...years now (2, and 4-5). It is sad, no Mother's day for me...nOTHING...no holidays etc Ericas |
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