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Member Since Jan 2005
Location: Canada, Mississauga
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Mar 17, 2005 at 05:59 PM
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I have two people in my life that I am losting because of cancer..My best friend's mother who is like a mom to me that I know over 20 years. She has and had breast cancer and now she has bone cancer and it is not getting better. I just found out she has two more where the other one is. Then my uncle's new wife is dying of cancer too.
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Mar 17, 2005 at 08:50 PM
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I am so sorry. I want you to know that bone cancer is not an automatic pain and death sentence. I knew, until very recently a remarkable woman of advanced age who had both breasts removed due to cancer and it went to the bone. She lived a very long time with brittle blackened bones and a stroke and a broken hip and she died recently from something else, yes the cancer had weakened her to that state but I had her for nearly 16 years. I am so sorry and I hope that you can give your friend love and support and tell her how much she means to you. It's always a surprise when someone tells us that we made a difference in their life. Good luck to you all.
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Mar 18, 2005 at 11:01 AM
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thanks. i know because the doctor told her that she could live 3 months to 10 months to a year or 10 years and now she is going on i think a year now but she had this long time ago and no one knew about it..doctor said that it don't look good but we are hoping that she lives a long time too..but thanks.
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Mar 19, 2005 at 10:59 AM
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Yuck... I'm sorry that you're going through this. I know the pain. I've lost a few to this illness as well. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Please take good care of yourself and spend as much time as possible with your loved ones.
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Mar 23, 2005 at 10:09 PM
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i'm very sorry.......tell them that you love them and do as much as you can....it may not be as soon as you think.......xoxo pat
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Mar 23, 2005 at 11:40 PM
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Hi Lost angel,
((((((HUGS)))))) I am sorry your feeling such pain. I can relate all to well. My Uncle, at 56 years old died 1 year ago today from cancer. I loved him deeply and think about him all the time. Our family didnt have much time with him before he passed per his wishes. I can only tell you to spend all the time you can with these people you love. Let them know you love them and care for them and make sure you make every moment with them special. It will lift their sprits and your during this very difficult time. Again, I know your pain and I am sorry that anyone must go through this. It is so hard. Take care |
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Mar 30, 2005 at 02:32 AM
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lost angel, I'm sorry that you are losing 2 people who are very close to you to cancer. Such a terrible disease. All I can suggest is to enjoy their company as much as you can now and keep telling them how much you love them. Take advantage of the time you have left with them. (((((((( lost angel ))))))))))
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Apr 02, 2005 at 03:15 AM
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my sister is now 10 yrs free of cancer. She has been through kemo with both breast removed and lymphnoids. There is always hope.
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Location: Canada, Mississauga
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Apr 04, 2005 at 11:50 AM
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thank you so much and i am sorry to hear about everyone else and i am glad that your sister has made it. but my best friend's mother nothing it working for her and they found two more...but thank you again.
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