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Feb 15, 2010, 09:42 PM
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I put this in grief and loss because it feels just like grief and loss.
We meet ppl here only on a friendship way and then they go off and find there own friends. which leaves us in the dirt... Then everywhere I look I am seeing some baby comercial or a real baby and it's just burning a hole in my soul.... I don't know how to get over a loss of 7 chilren murdered and not one wealthy person that committed those crimes againist my babies servered any time yet, I was put into the hospital and didn't talk. People say give it time..... Give it time???? It's been going on 27 years how much more time can I give it? If I could cry, I would be crying now......Crew
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Feb 15, 2010, 09:46 PM
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(((((CREW))))
I am so sorry for you loss. I wish i could say something to help, but I don't know what to say. Just want you to know you are loved and cared for. Hope hugs are ok. Hugs, Jen
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Feb 15, 2010, 10:04 PM
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You certainly don't sound stupid. I am really sorry you have to go through this. If you want to talk more about it, I'm here to listen.
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Feb 16, 2010, 02:47 AM
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((((hugs))))
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Feb 16, 2010, 03:14 AM
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Safe hugs Crew.
 You have our friendship and no, you are not stupid. Grief takes as long as it takes and it is okay to cry. The reminders must feel like some kind of punishment to see and I pray that today and for the days to come that you will find some peace within. Crew, we think you are working some things out and are so grateful you have found words to describe such horrible events, at least to a degree anyway. If you can post more it may help, although it's perfectly fine not to as well. Quote:
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Feb 16, 2010, 04:32 AM
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Hey Crew, you do not sound stupid at all. As a matter of fact, I do not give yourself enough credit! You posted about why you are grieving and said you could not talk about it...well, you opened up the door by sharing with us! That's a big first Crew! I do agree people come and go on this site, but if you keep that in mind as you get to know new people, you can protect your heart better. Also by knowing there is a core group of people who are self commited to this site to help others and ask for support as needed just like you are doing. Hang in there! You are addressing a huge issue and it is hard. But we are here. Safe hug for yall!
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Feb 16, 2010, 09:07 PM
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Feb 17, 2010, 10:21 AM
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((((((((((( Crew ))))))))))))))) we here for you - sending tons of hugs
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Feb 17, 2010, 03:03 PM
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(((CREW))) I am here, please keep talking about this.
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Feb 18, 2010, 07:55 AM
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You don't sound stupid at all. I lived in a condo on the block of two different apartment complexes. My whole life all my friends in my neighborhood came and went, and I stayed in the same place. It's heartbreaking. Especially when you have trust issues and making new friends isn't very easy. I can understand the same can be true on this site. Anyway you've been through so much in your life, you have the right to still be grieving. It will take as long as you need it too.
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Feb 19, 2010, 12:17 PM
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Crew,
It takes what it takes for as long as it takes. If it hurts you, it hurts me. PM anytime. You not stupid...far, far from that! You're pretty darn sharp and caring in my book.
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Feb 19, 2010, 12:29 PM
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Hi Crew,I know exactly how you feel. I lost my son 20 years ago and never gets any easier. My wife and I adopted him. He was a refugee from Vietnam and brought to the United States when he was only four months old. We had the pleasure of knowing him for 16 years before he died by his own hand. Very sad, I know exactly what you're going through. Like I said it never gets any easier, but somehow you get by knowing that someday you will meet your children on the other side.
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