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Old Sep 29, 2010, 11:27 AM
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Do I need to say more....
Oct 2009 - Father in law crashed his plane - age 81
Nov 2009 - My dear friends husband committed s - age 40
April 2010 - My daughters dear band friend committed s - age 13
July 2010 - My daughters bbf's house burns, lost Winter age 9 and Nikki age 30
Sep 2010 - Aunt Maggie died of hep C - age 61

I am totally falling apart Hugs
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Old Sep 29, 2010, 12:01 PM
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I am so sorry for so many losses. That is really rough. Big hugs to you
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Old Sep 29, 2010, 12:12 PM
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I am so sorry for all you are going through I lost my grand daughter in January.
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Old Sep 29, 2010, 01:01 PM
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Thanks... I just still can't stop myself from crying.... I think I bundled it all up.. and now it is "blowing" out... I have been a total mess for over a week now... Hugs for listening and supporting me
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Old Sep 29, 2010, 05:41 PM
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I think what you are going thru could be considered delayed grief. with it happening so much in the last year you have had one after another with no time to grieve any of them hon. it is normal I think. time now to let the grief out. you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Old Oct 11, 2010, 12:15 PM
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I have started to write down all my drastic losses.... and it is helping... including the affects it has had on my life. I need to get this out!!!! Starting with my best friend at age 6... brain tumor... and I never understood why? Hugs and doing better
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Old Oct 12, 2010, 02:29 AM
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I am so sorry you have to go through so many losses. I will keep you in my thoughts
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 06:44 PM
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Today Oct 14, I found out my dear collague age 55 was killed in a car crash on Monday.... this makes it no 7. funeral tomorrow....
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Old Oct 14, 2010, 08:18 PM
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(((((((((karollina)))))))))))))
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Old Oct 17, 2010, 12:04 AM
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Somehow able to deal with this loss better.... could be the vitami D I am taking. Not so down, depressed or manic at all. I did skip the funeral.... just could not deal with it so soon after Aunt Maggie Hugs everyone!!!!!
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Old Oct 20, 2010, 07:07 PM
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I am so sorry, I will keep you in my thoughts, and i will keep you in my prayers!!! take care
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Old Oct 20, 2010, 07:13 PM
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I am really trying my best to plug along.....
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Old Oct 20, 2010, 07:35 PM
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I am really trying my best to plug along.....

You are doing a GREAT job!!!
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Old Nov 20, 2010, 09:31 AM
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No. 8) Nov. 15 - Friends husband, Jerry - age 45, S

Just devistated (sp)... Don't know if I can even go to the memorial..... I have no more coping skill left.
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Old Nov 21, 2010, 04:37 PM
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((((((((karoliina))))))))
So sorry you are in my thoughts
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Old Nov 21, 2010, 05:45 PM
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You are in my thoughts too ((((((((((((((((((((karoliina))))))))))))))))))))))))) I'm so sorry
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Old Nov 22, 2010, 03:20 PM
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Doing a bit better.... mentally.... Thanks my PC pals!!! It helps to write is down...
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Old Nov 22, 2010, 03:21 PM
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So glad you're doing a bit better! We are here for you!!
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