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May 31, 2011 at 07:01 PM
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My mom's been gone two years today... it seems like yesterday, and also like forever.
She, and dad, have visited me in dreams... assuring me, telling me directly that they are "okay"...and I know that heaven is a much better place than being sick here on earth. It's just hard remembering those last 2 weeks...and working at blocking all those "what if?" thoughts. Mom was 89. Dad was 84 when he passed years ago.  See you soon!
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Jun 01, 2011 at 08:51 AM
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It really doesn't seem it was that long ago. I am glad you are being comforted by their appearances in your dreams. Dad has been gone almost a month now and it seems like yesterday.
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Jun 02, 2011 at 05:55 AM
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I'm sorry for your loss (JD)
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Jun 11, 2011 at 06:10 PM
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I'm sorry for all your losses, ladies
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Jun 11, 2011 at 06:16 PM
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I'm glad that you're being reassured by your dreams. Don't regret the last two weeks. We all die, in our own ways. My husband took a year and a half, my mother a week, my Grandfather just under an hour. Death is a journey we must all take at some time. Best to wait on it, no point hurrying it up. I think every death teaches us something as well, though not always something tangible enough to explain.
I do believe that you'll meet your parents again. And when you do the whole nightmare of our lives will fade like any other dream. Stay well. __________________ Here I sit so patiently Waiting to find out what price You have to pay to get out of Going through all these things twice. |
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