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Old Nov 28, 2005, 12:32 AM
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Well if there is anyone who remembers me my mother passed away this month. I haven't been here in so long I missed my birthday wish from doc John back in July! TY Doc John.
We moved this summer.
I used to come here fairly often when mom was living here by me. She went to live with my brother and his wife in July, they are retired. Finally her suffering is over.

I just felt like I needed to post about it....part of the closure I guess.
I am doing fine really. Now I have to clear out her house and sell it. I have 4 siblings to divide everything with. And yes I am the executor.....Oh Joy. How did the baby girl get this pain in the *** job? LOL Oh well so far so good....Wish me a speedy end to it all.

It's nice to see all the familar ppl Mom is gone

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Old Nov 28, 2005, 12:35 AM
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roxxy, i'm sorry for your loss. i'm sending vibes and caring thoughts to you. xoxo pat
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Old Nov 28, 2005, 12:40 AM
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Old Nov 28, 2005, 01:19 AM
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Roxxy,

I'm sorry for the loss of your Mom. It is always a tough time in people's lives. I'm sure you'll do a great job as executor.

Keep us posted.

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Old Dec 01, 2005, 10:23 AM
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Oh boy, a lot of work lies in front of you.
I'm sending you best wishes for strength,patience and hope that your siblings all help with this task, it can be overwhelming. Try to make time for yourself, step back type of breaks in between, during this process.
Please take care,
DE

(((((((((((( roxxy ))))))))))))))


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Welcome back. Mom is gone
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Old Dec 02, 2005, 12:43 PM
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Hi Roxxy, So sorry. I hope clearing her stuff out brings you good memories to go with the work.
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Old Dec 02, 2005, 01:02 PM
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(((roxxy))) Sorry for the loss of your mother. Mom is gone
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Old Dec 02, 2005, 03:35 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear that your mom is gone. Yes, being executor is a BIG responsibility. When my mom died last year I was ok for awhile...that is until earlier this year when everything seemed to hit me hard. I had to be hospitalized so bad. I really do feel for you.

Take care and stay safe.
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Old Dec 02, 2005, 04:52 PM
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Roxxy,

I am so sorry to hear that your mother died. It is really a hard thing to go through. My Mother died of cancer in January of this year too. I am the only child & last one of the family, so I can relate to the having to clean out the house, & sell it. My only problem is that I have a hard time going back into the house since the trauma from the home care RN still haunts me when I go into the house. Being the only child, I don't have anyone to help me with the job. I ended up being the trustee too.

I am glad to hear that you are doing as well as you are. Take care of yourself & hope the rest of your family will be helpful for you.

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Old Dec 02, 2005, 05:14 PM
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So sorry about the loss of your Mother. Few things are more painful than the loss of the beloved one who gave you life. I am sending good vibes your way. Good luck on selling her house. Mom is gone

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Old Dec 06, 2005, 06:49 PM
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