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Mar 21, 2006 at 01:59 AM
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Im a lost failure...
im stupid and i should be in jail i should live and this guilt i have will live forever... I KILLED MY BEST FRIEND!!!!! we had a fight at school... and then i just got a phone call tell me she commited suicide!!!! i would do anything just to have her back she has always been there... OH THE GUILT __________________ “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves” Viktor Frankl
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Mar 21, 2006 at 03:38 AM
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OMG Milly. What a nightmare. Please don't go and do anything drastic. What was your fight about? What was (In your thoughts) the reason that your friend did this. Please talk this out.
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Mar 21, 2006 at 12:17 PM
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milly......i'm so sorry for your loss but please don't blame yourself......please post when you can and let us know that you are ok..we'll help you through this....
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Mar 21, 2006 at 05:05 PM
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Sorry to hear Milly...very sorry
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Mar 21, 2006 at 05:10 PM
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((((((((((((((milly))))))))))))))))
i'm so sorry. i felt much guilt when my brother attempted, then almost succeeded. he told me later that it had been going on for a long time and that it didn't have to do with anything anyone had said or done. it wasn't you, honey. kd __________________ 
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Mar 21, 2006 at 05:54 PM
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Oh dear Milly...
THIS WAS NOT YOUR FAULT. Please please please don't do anything you'll regret, PM or email me. We're all here for you, YOU WILL GET THROUGH THIS. (((((((MILLY)))))))) __________________ 
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Mar 23, 2006 at 12:56 AM
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im not going to put up with the tormenting at school any longer... i just cant handle their stares... as if they knew what happened... as if they blame me...
but then again i blame myself... im a complete and utter failure!!!!!!!!! __________________ “When we are no longer able to change a situation, we are challenged to change ourselves” Viktor Frankl
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Mar 23, 2006 at 08:50 AM
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milly....so glad to see you posting........i think you need to talk to a school counselor ......you need someone to reassure you that this was not your fault!.......keep posting....we'll help you through this
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Mar 23, 2006 at 11:16 AM
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Oh Milly,
There are things that are said many times.......you are not responsible for what someone does......remember it is their choice to do what they do & you did not cause it to happen. You are not guilty of anything. The important thing for you right now is to have a professional that can help you talk through your feelings, thoughts, & what happened so that you are able to put your friends reaction into the proper perspective. Everyone makes their own choices in what they do in their life......everyone is only responsible for their own life, what they do & how they react to something. Find a good psychologist or someone like that to talk it through with & they can help you sort through your thoughts......& hopefully we can help you here as much as possible until you can get the professional help you truly need right now. Take care of yourself & don't stop loving yourself......you didn't do it, Debbie __________________  Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this. Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018 |
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