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My 70-yr old, 33-yr-recovered alcoholic mom died suddenly in 2004 after only a few yrs reconciliation.
My 27-yr old son was killed in a car accident in 2007, he was on his way home, just 2 minutes away. My husband of 35 yrs passed in 2010 after a 7 yr illness, he also had let go of his life after the loss of our son. I am blessed with 4 living children and 6 grandchildren. I am immersed in these blessings, tho I also have missing parts that will never, ever be filled. I think of them all every day. I am under Pdoc and T care, along with meds to try and live as normally as possible. Though my living family members and I are living our lives, we incorporate our angels into everything we do. The little ones who may have been too young to remember them, or not born yet are told about their family who have gone before us. They have become a part of their lives to be carried on into their futures.
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'Tá brón orm go deo deo i mo chroí'
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I am so sorry for all your losses. It is great that you make them a part of your every day life. Sometimes I wonder how we go on without those we have lost but we do.
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Shadow
I am so happy that you can still count your blessing after so much loss. some would find it too hard to go on. I admire your courage and strength. Your little ones are lucky to have you share so much of your loved ones lvies with them. ![]() |
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Thank you both for that encouragement. The open sharing of the lives of my mom, son and husband, as well as others whom other family members have lost actually becomes a sort of active grieving. We are using that to fill the emptiness we have from their passings. It doesn't do that the same as if they were here, but is a better healer than suffering quietly without mentioning them at all. We love to talk about them.
Bless you both.
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Don't know why 2 came up.
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This is like a living death. It was a weapon against me. I keep my love alive for her and look at her pictures and childhood drawings and love letters to me to remember she once loved me. This is not self pity, but survival with hope. This is a spiritual battle God fights for me. Peace, "help.............." ![]() Thank you for your post; it did encourage me at this late hour. Time can heal but we never forget.
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God bless you. (((((((hugs)))))))
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