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Default Oct 19, 2006 at 01:28 AM
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When my husband and I divorced, he got custody of most of our friends -- which was, believe me, fine. Two who remained loyal to me were a woman named Anne and a man named Randal. Both were my former husband's friends, both rebelled against his mistreatment of me and both cut ties with he and anyone who pledged allegiance to him.

Yesterday I lost Randal. I'm beside myself. I attended the visitation after physical therapy this evening, but will be unable to attend the funeral as I have my last therapy session at the same time, wherein 4 of 4 therapists will recommend surgery. I have to get up in four hours to be driven to my mother's because my husband will save a lot of driving time if I'm that much closer to the PT. I am somewhat lonely, quite bereft and not a little overwhelmed right this minute. Can I get a "there,there" before I try once again to sleep?

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I'm so sorry.... Wish there was something insightful I could say to help... but there isn't. But you can get a hug and good wishes. (((( enigma17 ))))

Hope you can also manage to get some rest. Take care.
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Default Oct 19, 2006 at 11:00 AM
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)) ))) ) )Randal and Enigma17 (((((((( ( ( oh, loosing a good friend...... nothing leaves a hole quite like that one. Soooo sorry for your loss!

My best pal and I tell each other all the time: You cannot die, I need you..... knowing full well the ugly truth that one of us will go first......

Friends are precious precious precious. I am so glad you had his support when you especially needed it. Maybe you and his partner can be a special comfort to each other, or something .

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(((((((( enigma17 ))))))))

Lost a dear,dear friend Lost a dear,dear friend

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Default Oct 24, 2006 at 12:42 PM
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((((((((( enigma17)))))))))))))
Sorry to hear this, please take care.

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Enigma,

I am so sorry about your friend's death.
I am sending you a cyberhug.
Please take care of yourself
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