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Old Jan 12, 2015, 05:34 PM
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My mum's inquest was today. It is nearly a year since she died but today we finally had the court hearing that will allow me to register her death.
Because this has been hanging over me for so long, I had sort of gotten used to this unfinished, unresolved scenario and this finality, having a cause of death after all this time makes me feel like she's died all over again.
I feel like the grieving process is starting over. I now have to acknowledge she really is dead. I will have a death certificate and there is nothing more to do. I can't believe I feel so lost after so long.
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Old Jan 12, 2015, 07:19 PM
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I really feel for you as I lost my mom 16 years ago and I still miss her. I am so sorry for your grief. The grieving process can start over but that can happen many times over the years. It may take time to acknowledge that she is really gone. I am so sorry that you feel so lost. I am sorry that you have to go through this. I can only send you hugs from afar. Many many((( Hugs)))
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Old Jan 13, 2015, 02:55 AM
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I'm sorry Echos
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Old Jan 13, 2015, 08:52 AM
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My heart goes out to you.
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