Home Menu

Menu


Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
  #1  
Old Jan 18, 2016, 11:07 PM
berry22 berry22 is offline
New Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2016
Location: US
Posts: 9
My mother passed on the 10th of this month. She was 53 and had lung cancer. Which the cancer they didn't even find until she had her gallbladder surgery end of the summer 2015. Once they did the biopsy in november the dr said they wasn't going be able to do surgery and she started chemo the week of Christmas. My mom said she wanted this last Christmas to be a big nice Christmas for the family if would be her last. She spoiled the grand kids and the family. She passed away on the 10th and I remember my sister called and I started crying. I miss her. When I first heard about the cancer I tried to prepare myself for the worse in case, but I wasn't prepared enough. I think about the 'should ofs' like I should of spent more time with her or called her more. My mom talked about wanting to go with my sister and I on a trip to niagara falls to spend some time together. Sorry for ranting a little needed get that out
Hugs from:
anon72219, Anonymous37781, Anonymous37827

advertisement
  #2  
Old Jan 20, 2016, 08:42 AM
Mirecourt Mirecourt is offline
New Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2016
Location: Southeast USA
Posts: 2
I'm so very sorry for your loss. I'm in the same boat. Losing someone right around the holidays makes it extra painful. It sounds like your mom was a lovely, thoughtful person, and I think it's totally normal to be wondering if we said and/or did enough. Please accept my sincere sympathy.
Hugs from:
berry22
  #3  
Old Jan 20, 2016, 01:16 PM
gayleggg's Avatar
gayleggg gayleggg is offline
Legendary Wise Elder
Community Liaison
 
Member Since: Apr 2013
Location: Texas
Posts: 26,619
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
__________________
Bipolar I, Depression, GAD Meds: Zoloft, Zyprexa, Ritalin

"Each morning we are born again. What we do today is what matters most." -Buddha
Hugs from:
berry22
  #4  
Old Jan 21, 2016, 11:05 PM
berry22 berry22 is offline
New Member
 
Member Since: Jan 2016
Location: US
Posts: 9
Thanks for the replies. I honestly been an emotional wreck since she passed. I'm dealing one day at a time since I know it's going to be hard. thanks again for the responses
  #5  
Old Jan 27, 2016, 05:19 AM
Anonymous32451
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
hey,

i know i'm late in responding to this, but wanted to say i'm also sorry for your loss.

must be a really hard time for you right now
Reply
Views: 839

attentionThis is an old thread. You probably should not post your reply to it, as the original poster is unlikely to see it.




All times are GMT -5. The time now is 06:05 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2025, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.




 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.