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Old Aug 02, 2018, 05:41 PM
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Today my motherīs cat was put down in a very sudden and sad way. It was my motherīs cat but I got very attached to him and I always looked forward to meet with him when I visited my mother.

He was 15 years old and this spring we found a lump on his left thigh but as my mother is short of money she didnīt take him to the vet. Both I and my brother pointed out the cat had a lump.

Now in August my mother decided to take the cat to the vet and today it all ended. I just sit her crying as there were complications during the examination of him and it seemed like, I wasnīt there myself, the vet thought there would be a risk to give him anasthesia.

My mother then choose to put him to sleep which feels so unfair to him as he didnīt show any symptoms of sickness. Perhaps the lump was cancer, they didnīt know but if my mother had taken him to the vet already in the spring perhaps something could have been done to help him.

Iīm angry with her and I miss the cat and now thereīs nothing to do about it.
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Old Aug 02, 2018, 08:54 PM
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I'm so sorry this happened.
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Old Aug 03, 2018, 06:28 AM
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Old Aug 03, 2018, 08:47 AM
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I'm so sorry. In the last year, we have lost a dog and three cats. My heart may stay broken.
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Old Aug 06, 2018, 04:29 PM
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I am so sorry for your loss.

My mom had a dog and one day she took them to the vets and they euthanized the dog. It was a sad day for me. I guess my mom has regrets about that too. She has dreams about the dog.
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Old Aug 11, 2018, 05:49 PM
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So sorry for the loss of your mom's dog. I just lost sweet companion of fourteen years and it's very difficult. Miss him so much.
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:09 PM
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I am so sorry, I still remember my mum putting our dog to sleep as a child for no reason at all. I couldn't forgive her for months.
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Old Aug 13, 2018, 01:25 PM
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