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Aug 12, 2007, 01:59 PM
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Tomorrow is my mother-in-law`s funeral. I wasn`t planning on going, not because I am mean but because funeral brings feelings in me that I can`t explain. These feelings comes from far away but I don`t know where or why.
But, hubby asked me to go to represent him because he can`t go. He has a job that he can`t leave and he didn`t find anyone to replace him. So, I guess it will be me there tomorrow. |
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Aug 12, 2007, 02:03 PM
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his company won't allow him time off to go to his mother's funeral? my goodness! that is horrible! I am glad you are going. I don't like them either but there are times in our lives we must. I am sorry for your loss
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Aug 12, 2007, 02:12 PM
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((( time) )))
Is there anyone that can go with you? It's tough going to these things, but alone is even worse. Maybe there is someone in hubby's family that can meet you or did they all have the same issues.  I'd go with you if I could. 
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Aug 12, 2007, 06:56 PM
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You are a good and caring person, Time0. It is a sad fact that it basically came down to you, because his work site would not allow him time off, but you are very gracious to your husband and he hopefully appreciates it very much.
I am glad you went, even though you would of really rather not. I think we are all that way when it comes to funerals.
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Aug 12, 2007, 08:15 PM
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My daughter said she will come with me as it is her grandmother and she loves her Dad.
I am not close to hubby`s sibblings. It is hubby who has built a wall between me and them but this is another story so I will not go there. Thank you so much for your support and understanding. You are all very caring people. |
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Aug 13, 2007, 06:52 PM
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((((TIME0)))). I feel that is an open minded thing that you are doing for your husband. I hope things go well for you and your daughter at the funeral. I am sorry for your loss. Take care. Soidhonia
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Aug 13, 2007, 06:52 PM
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((((TIME0)))). I feel that is an open minded thing that you are doing for your husband. I hope things go well for you and your daughter at the funeral. I am sorry for your loss. Take care. Soidhonia
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The Caged Bird Sings with a Fearful Trill of Things Unknown and Longed for Still and his Tune is Heard on the Distant Hill for the Caged Bird Sings of Freedom |
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Aug 13, 2007, 07:44 PM
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Thank you!
I went and I just got back. There is so much I could say but it will not give me anything. So I will turn this page and be thankful that my 2 daughters came with me. Thank you all for your support. I appreciate it very much. |
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