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Old Nov 22, 2007, 02:37 PM
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As some of my close friends on PC know I have been going thru some pretty rough times. Just when I start seeing a possible light at the end of the tunnel I find out it was just my imagination.

This morning I get the news that my nephew who is 27 was killed while on the job at work yesterday. The truck he was driving went off the road and hit 3 trees and he was trapped in the truck. He had to cut out of the truck and of course he was pronounced dead at the scene of the accident.

My son who just moved back to Florida was very close to his cousin. They went to school together...he stayed here with us quite a bit...I would take the boys to different basketball tournments and the list goes on. My son is devastated of course. I tried to help my son thru his emotions but it is difficult on the phone. Not to mention my daughter was here and freaking too. Now we wait until the funeral arrangements are made.

At times there is no answers and I know that but I am human and still want to know why! I will once again pull my "everything ok" mask out and also my "stronger than anything" mask...switch back and forth so the holiday will continue as it traditionally has as internally I cry....

May your Thanksgiving be filled with much love and happiness....
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Old Nov 22, 2007, 02:59 PM
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((((((((snowy))))))) I'm sorry for your loss. Stuff like this is always made twice as hard by holidays. Precious is Life

I wish you and your family peace in this difficult time. Precious is Life
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Old Nov 22, 2007, 06:21 PM
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ty so much for your kind words....
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Old Nov 22, 2007, 06:26 PM
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oh snowy hon I am so sorry! it is so hard to lose such young ones. please know my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
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Old Nov 22, 2007, 10:58 PM
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Thank you Bebop....
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Old Nov 22, 2007, 11:36 PM
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very sorry to hear about your nephew....i have no answers
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Old Nov 23, 2007, 02:17 AM
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Precious is Life

words... can never express how very sorry I am...
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Old Nov 23, 2007, 07:32 AM
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Thank you heyjoe....sometimes there is no answers...
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Old Nov 23, 2007, 07:33 AM
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Thank you
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Old Nov 23, 2007, 10:56 AM
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Precious is Life {{{{{Snow & Family}}}}} Precious is Life

I am so sorry for your loss hon. I do understand how your son feels. I too lost a nephew the same age as I when we were 28 due to a brain tumor. I know this was much more sudden and no chances of saying your goodbye's ... but I bet you anything he knew how much he was loved by you and your family. I am thinking of you and your family Snow. If you need anything let me know please!

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Old Nov 23, 2007, 11:21 AM
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I lost a nephew (19) recently so i can imagine what you are going through. You and your whole family are in my prayers.
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Old Nov 23, 2007, 01:17 PM
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Thank you so much Sweet....and yes I believe he does know...
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Old Nov 23, 2007, 01:33 PM
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(((((((((old one))))) so sorry for your loss...thank you for your words...
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((( snowy )))

No words of wisdom, just please know that I care. Precious is Life
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Old Nov 23, 2007, 11:03 PM
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Thank you for caring...that means more than wisdom right now...
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Old Nov 24, 2007, 04:56 PM
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sometimes things happen and there just is no reason
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Old Nov 24, 2007, 06:45 PM
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Thank you for being there for me...
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Old Nov 25, 2007, 09:37 AM
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{{{{{snowy}}}}}

there are just no words... only god knows why.

my thoughts and prayers are with you.


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Old Nov 25, 2007, 10:58 AM
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Thank you Gypsyeyes....
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Old Nov 25, 2007, 12:11 PM
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You will be in my thoughts and prayers, I am so so sorry, I can't think how you must be feeling, in my heart sweet friend always......Jinny, sorry I only just saw your post.....

Love you, Kerry xxxxxxxx
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Old Nov 26, 2007, 12:53 PM
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I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, and all the other rough stuff you are dealing with.
I'm sending you my heartfelt thoughts and prayers for strength and healing.
Sincerely,
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Old Nov 26, 2007, 01:26 PM
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I so appreciate your thoughts and prayers...thank you Darkeyes
Precious is Life Precious is Life
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Old Nov 26, 2007, 01:27 PM
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I know you are always there for me...thank you
Precious is Life Precious is Life
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